After Florence deceived me I was thinking about the kind of woman I wanted to marry. I always wanted to marry a woman with following characteristics:
Exposure: I love a woman that is very exposed, a woman that will be ready to follow me wherever I go. That was the reason I love Florence so much. I love going shopping, touring around the beach and different places. I don't like a woman that wore skirts, I love a woman that wore trousers.
I love seeing the shape of my woman! skirt was the reason I dislike Nancy. Despite her Beauty, she wore a skirt every time like a 59 year old woman in a village. I couldn't tell her that I did not like her dress, even when my feelings were growing like grass on which fertilizer was applied.
Classy Woman: I never knew that some of the classy women are living a fake life until I met Juliet in a Chicken Republic.
I never knew that Juliet was looking for a man to buy her food in Chicken Republic. I saw a beautiful lady on a seat in Ikeja ShopRite. beautiful lady, how are you doing?
“I’m fine”, may I know your name?
She replied, “My name is Juliet.”
What a good name! I'm Chris by name but from this moment onward, my name is Romeo. I want to be your Romeo; She smiled and looked into my eyes with sexy eyes.
I was very happy, then, I told the lady that was selling food to give her anything she wanted. Juliet ordered for a full chicken, a plate of fried rice and holandia yogurt. I was in haste because of traffic congestion. I collected her number, and paid for everything before I left.
Though, I love to know 20% about a lady before she can become my friend.
I love what the lady wore- the cloth, jeans, wig, eating, anklet and necklace. I started chatting with the lady on the phone. After a month, I called her to meet in the same spot. she replied to me, “okay sir".
when we met in the same spot, she wore a pick shirt and trousers, she looked like a model. I was shocked because I was fascinated by her dress.
The first thing that came out of my mouth was, ‘you are too beautiful’.
she replied, “thank you."
I told the waitress to serve us food and drinks.
I asked her to tell me about herself, " I'm a fashion designer and content creator, my address… .. I'm living in 2 bedroom with my junior sister“
Will you love it if I visit you?
“Yes of course”
I paid all the bills and we left.
There was a day I was passing through her place, I called her saying that I'm in your location with gifts, I don't actually know your place.
“Wait, I'm coming to pick you."
She doesn't want me to enter her house but I said, you don't need to worry about anything. I'm a free man!
I knew the moment I was in the front of the building, it was a room with a general bathroom and toilet.
When I entered her room, it was exactly a room; sleeping on a 1 1⁄2 mattress, cooking in the room, and her clothes were scattered on the floor.
I wanted to stay for 10 minutes so that she won't feel guilty. I don't want her to feel that I ran away because of her room.
I was suffocating in the room, and I knew if I spent 10 minutes, something bad might happen to me.
A friend of mine just called me to check on me. I lied to her that someone is waiting for me right now. thank was how I left her room.
I came back to know more about the lady from people living in that environment and discovered that she was a prostitute.
That was how I ended it. I don't know much about women, I don't deserve to marry a prostitute. The only lady that I was in a relationship with was Florence and there was no sex or kissing. I have never kissed her in my life. I did not deserve to get along with a prostitute; though, some people love it but it is not my portion.
The First Time I Met My Wife
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I met my wife at a dinner party of the Non-governmental Organization I was working with. I met her at that dinner party, I didn't feel like she was my wife because she wasn't the kind of woman I liked.
She is extremely beautiful but she wasn't classy enough to my standard. She is God's fearing woman, with known experience of man in her life.
I collected her number that day with the intention of making her a friend not my love. Making her my girlfriend didn't cross my mind talking of marrying her.
After 3 months, I did not call or chat with her until I saw her Whatsapp status on mother's day. I decided to call her and she told me to send a mother's day gift. I sent #3,000 as a gift for her.
That was how I started calling her, and love set in.
When love was on, I forgot those qualities I needed in a woman.
I didn't believe it when she told me because I thought she wanted to use it to attract me. Hardly to see a decent and virtuous lady in junior classes.
Sincerely, she hasn't lied to me in this relationship even in marriage right now.
What Did She bring into my life?
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Happiness: because of the way we relate, talk and laugh at home. I always want to go home from the office. She knows the best way to talk to me if someone hurts me outside.
The last time I was hurt by my colleague in the office, she encouraged and motivated me. Within 5 minutes, all the sadness went away from me. I don't know how she does that.
Even though I don't want to laugh, if she plays with me I must laugh.
Love: She is a woman of love, she used love to spoil my life. It is only a mad man that will plan to cheat in marriage with my wife. When I thought of the way she loved me, I ran away from the ladies. If a woman loves a man in this way and later finds out that the man is cheating on her, the woman may not forgive him. I don't want to mingle with those ladies that will make her doubtful.
She always wants everything to walk fine; putting all her best into this marriage.
Loneliness Is Gone: When I was staying alone, I used 2 hours to think everyday. After she came into my life, there was nothing like loneliness. We make jokes and laugh until we sleep.
We prayed together, played music, danced together, went out together, ate together and did almost everything together.
Joy and gladness
If I count how many times I ate homemade food before I married her, It must be 300 and more days I eat outside in a year. I eat outside every day!
I couldn't imagine someone would cook food the way I wanted it except Calabar kitchen.
Everything she cooks is delicious; far more delicious than the Calabar kitchen.
I no longer visit the Calabar kitchen like before, I only visit when she travels. She taught me how to cook soup and some other foods. I'm also cooking at home and she never complains that my soup is not delicious.
I tasted my soup and I knew that I'm very poor, so I forced myself to eat the soup I made. After eaten the soup I made she would tell me, “your soup is delicious and I want to eat more of it."
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