Life is not a bed of roses. We need to struggle for almost everything. It can be for freedom, it can be for earning money, it can be for happiness, or something else. It's because nothing comes to us. There is no guarantee that we will be successful in every time, but we hope to be successful in every case.
Many times, failure also comes and absorbs our spirits. Feeling demotivated, powerless, or unlucky is very natural. Surrounded by negative energy, it starts to consume our souls little by little. We can only see the darkness, and finding a way to overcome the darkness is very difficult considering the mental situation at that time. Some people wait for miracles, some become fully dependent on luck, and some people think darkness will be gone automatically. In most cases, those people end up in the darkness. I am talking about the darkness in our hearts.
We blame our luck or external things for our failure, which is the source of darkness in our hearts. We try to show various reasons for our failure to console ourselves. It's the thing that makes the darkness more powerful and gives us the wrong message that we were right and we become failures because of fate or luck. This is the thing that gives us more regret feeling. We think we can't go against fate, and that kind of thought starts to engulf our souls, and it's the worst thing for us. We are trying to deceive ourselves in the name of console ourselves.
The darkness in our hearts should be eliminated by the light. And the light exists within our hearts, which needs more people to shine to eliminate all the darkness from our hearts. It's not a difficult task for us, but we don't want to do it most of the time. Accepting that we are responsible for our failure can restrict the darkness to be more powerful, as reality creates a barrier for the darkness. Accepting reality, we can start working on the reasons for which we become failures. Fixing issues is very important if we want to be successful next time. And that's the thing that's powerful enough to replace the darkness and make us surrounded by positive energy.
Failures are part of success. We can learn from our failure, and that's what helps us not repeat the same consequences again. If we accept that we are reasonable for failure, then we can work on it, but just blaming luck or external things can only bring disappointments. It doesn't matter how powerful the darkness is, the light is enough to make it disappear. We just need the mentality to accept the reality and try continuously until we achieve success.
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Failure is part of life and so accepting that we are responsible for our failure and striving to fix it will surely restrict the darkness we may experience in life. It's a thing of the mind.
Nice reflection here Intishar
If we want to improve ourselves and do better we need to accept our mistakes and learn from them otherwise it's not possible.
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I think relying mainly on luck is a lazy thing to do, hehe. You are right, we learn from our failures and mistakes. Those help propel us to do better the next time.
We can learn from our mistakes if we accept that we made mistakes but most of us have the mentality to deny our mistakes and that's not a good thing for us. In fact, it's a barrier for us to move forward in life.
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The first line of life is not a bed of roses. It hits differently. When I read this line I always compare myself with situation. Very amazing post .
Indeed. In life ups and downs are very natural and we need to struggle most of the time in our life.