I like to remind my wife of from time to time.
My man.
They are more focused on talking about the environment.
Virtue signaling at its best.
I agree that actions are the important thing to notice here. I can't count the number of times I've heard something horrible said to me. I also sleep well every night. (I also don't hear the compliments either.)
Isn't it interesting that the majority of us seem to be hyper sensitive to the negative, but gloss over the positive?
It's a survival mechanism probably. I remember hearing a famous athlete asked which was more memorable: losing in the championship or winning. He said losing. Over evolutionary time, I'd assume that remembering the bad is way more important for survival. Let's go pessimism.