Having a child with birth control is indeed important. This is because you will be able to have control over what you have. Since you know your capabilities, it is indeed important to make sure you work on what you are capable of. People who just give birth to children don't really know what they are doing with their lives. Believe me, most of these parents only make their children suffer because there is no plan for them at the beginning.
I personally believe that one of the things we as humans are doing wrong is not making plans for whatever we are doing.
And of course, there are lots of benefits to birth control if only we stick to it. Talking about the country in general.
Birth control will reduce unwanted or unplanned pregnancies. What do I mean by that? In a country where there are rules and registrations that govern birth control, there's punishment for it. People will be careful to get their partners pregnant, especially the youth that are yet to get married. There will be consciousness in everything the youths are doing, and of course there will be good self-discipline. Unlike how people can just have sex for fun, they will be careful to do that.
Have you ever imagined why there are fewer orphanages in the country that have birth control and a large population of orphans in orphanages in a country that doesn't control birth? This is very simple to understand. There are some countries with uncountable orphans in the orphanages, and some of them still have mothers and fathers. Believe me, not every orphan does not have parents, but because their parents can't afford to take care of them, they had to find a way to give them to the orphanage. But in a country where there is good birth control, you will not have any problems, and everything will be under control.
Believe it or not, some parents engage in selling their children to the rich because the children are not planned for. This kind of situation is more or less human trafficking. Because why would you even sell your children in the first place? This is a crime in a country where there is no birth control.
Now the question is: Do I believe the government should engage in birth control? Well, to me, the answer is simple. To any country that has the intention of catering to its citizens. Then there's no problem with birth control. I believe this is a good way to reduce everything bad I've said up there. It will also serve as a chance to monitor the population in the country.
And on the other side, if a country doesn't care about its citizens, I believe it's not their right to tell them how to control their birth. Obviously, you only have power over what you feed, not what you don't care about. But as for parents to put ease on their family, it is pretty nice to control their birth. If it's just one or two children you can take care of, please do. It's pretty bad to bring children into this world and make them suffer.
Will regulating children make things better for the family? Of course, yes. I have known someone who does not have a good job to feed her family and gave birth to seven children. Even the wife doesn't have a job. Just imagine that kind of situation. As we speak now, the children are with different families that brought them up. Believe me, there is no love among the siblings because they do not even know each other. Anytime I see the man, I'm always angry because he happens to be someone I know very well. The fact that he makes all the children not grow up together is extremely bad.
Control your birth and manage whatever you have with your family. Do not suffer any children in the name of having fun.
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Your last line says it all, in the name of we want to be a parent we go as far as bringing a child into this world without any plans on how to care for the child.
I think like you, but unfortunately the government doesn't really care about the people, they are more concerned about the consequences that certain actions have on the country and will do anything to keep things under their control.
Do you think this can be possible in this country since the government is not ready to do the needful for the citizens, this should be an individual choice and not the government to regulate childbearing
Not all orphans don't have parents, I was touched by this, you're very correct, people give birth and then abandon these children at the orphanage home, it's annoying they should have used prevention majors instead of giving birth.
I believe you my dear. No child should suffer just because we need more children that we can't take care of them.
We need such policy in Nigeria to reduce children begging in the streets.
Thanks for sharing
The men said they don’t enjoy issuing protection and the the women said they can’t also be swallowing pills. That’s what has led us here today.
Africans think birth control is only about condoms and contraceptives. Even those they know of , they’re not using because we are still stuck with the old mentality from back in the day.
I hope God intervenes for us.
You are right 👍, that asides how many children are we going to have? We need to start talking about it now 🙂
😂😂who is we? My friend find somewhere to sleep.
But we are one now 😂. Ehn baby.
I beg oh😂
"Birth them, nature will take care of them" says a man and woman who are jobless and have absolutely no plan to properly care for the child that's about to be born. Family planning will definitely go a long way to stop these.