La incomprendida adolescencia. // The misunderstood adolescence.

in Motherhood • 14 days ago

        🌺Versión en Español 🌺

Lindo día amigos de la comunidad Motherhood. La adolescencia es una etapa muy difícil en la vida de nuestros hijos. Las emociones son tan intensas que sus estados de ánimo varían bruscamente. Lo mismo sonríen con enormes carcajadas que en un momento se deprimen y se apagan por completo.

Durante este período tan importante en la vida de nuestros hijos debemos tomar parte activa para guiarlos correctamente. Sin dejar de ser padres, debemos convertirnos en sus mejores amigos. Ser sus confidentes y escucharlos atentamente. Muchas veces un simple comentario esconde un torbellino de emociones internas. Más que juzgar o castigar debemos comprender y ayudar.

Durante la adolescencia nuestros hijos comienzan a tomar muchas decisiones por sí solos. Buscan constantemente la aprobación del grupo. En su necesidad de verse como adultos y lograr el respeto y admiración de sus iguales, adoptan un comportamiento rebelde. Esa rebeldía la aplican en el hogar y suelen usarlas en centros escolares. Esto puede hacer que se vean envueltos en diferentes problemas constantemente. Por eso, más que peleas familiares, debemos entender que sucede en la mente de nuestros hijos. Saberlos guiar. Convencerlos con argumentos sólidos de quien tiene la razón. Sembrar ideas en su mente con amor. Esas ideas correctas si florecen le brindarán frutos maravillosos a nuestros hijos. Apoyarlos en sus proyectos y estar siempre presentes para lo que necesiten.

Si no se logra la comunicación tan anhelada es muy común que acudan a consejos de extraños, que nunca tienen un buen resultado. Pueden experimentar con diferentes sustancias adictivas, abandonar la escuela o simplemente verse envueltos en problemas legales.

Por eso es tan importante escucharlos, en ser buenos ejemplos para ellos y siempre mostrarles el camino correcto a través de la comunicación y el amor.
Si logramos que nuestros hijos nos vean como aliados, nuestros consejos serán siempre bien recibidos. Buscarán nuestra ayuda en cada momento. Les podremos enseñar a identificar y a sumar personas con buenos valores a su vida, a ser independientes y capaces de identificar lo correcto de lo incorrecto. En resumen, lograremos convertirlos en personas correctas.

Espero que el post sea de su agrado. Muchas gracias por tomar un minuto para leer el post. Que la buena energía los acompañe. Les deseo un lindo día.

El texto fue traducido por el traductor de Google, porque el inglés no es mi idioma materno.

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        🌺 English Version 🌺

Nice day friends of the Motherhood community. Adolescence is a very difficult stage in our children's lives. Emotions are so intense that their moods vary abruptly. They also smile with enormous laughter that in a moment become depressed and completely extinguished.

During this important period in our children's lives we must take an active part to guide them correctly. Without ceasing to be parents, we must become their best friends. Be their confidants and listen to them carefully. Many times a simple comment hides a whirlwind of internal emotions. More than judging or punishing, we must understand and help.

During adolescence our children begin to make many decisions on their own. They constantly seek approval from the group. In their need to see themselves as adults and achieve the respect and admiration of their peers, they adopt rebellious behavior. They apply this rebellion at home and usually use them in schools. This can cause them to be constantly involved in different problems. That's why, more than family fights, we must understand what happens in the minds of our children. Know how to guide them. Convince them with solid arguments of who is right. Plant ideas in your mind with love. Those correct ideas, if they flourish, will bring wonderful fruits to our children. Support them in their projects and always be present for whatever they need.

If the long-awaited communication is not achieved, it is very common for them to resort to advice from strangers, which never have a good result.
They may experiment with different addictive substances, drop out of school, or simply find themselves in legal trouble.

That is why it is so important to listen to them, to be good examples for them and to always show them the right path through communication and love. If we can get our children to see us as allies, our advice will always be well received. They will seek our help at every moment. We can teach them to identify and add people with good values ​​to their lives, to be independent and capable of identifying right from wrong. In short, we will be able to turn them into correct people.

I hope you like the post. Thank you very much for taking a minute to read the post. May good energy be with you. I wish you a nice day.

The text was translated by Google translator, because English is not my native language.

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