“Celebrating Mom's Birthday: A Bittersweet Journey”

in Family & Friends28 days ago

F70641F0-5F74-4654-BD47-AFF259B11275.png

Hello hivers! Allow me to introduce myself again, @amishu, and welcome to my blog.🌷

Join me on a heartfelt journey as we celebrate Mom's birthday, filled with sweet memories and a touch of bittersweet reflection.🍂

IMG_1447.jpeg
May 4, 2024🗓️

On my mom’s 40th birthday today, I greeted her one day before her birthday through a video call. Since my mom is an overseas Filipino worker (OFW), we can’t celebrate her birthday together. It’s sad to not be with your mother on special occasions, but I still understand because I know she’s only doing that for us. I miss her so much, and I know she misses us more.🥺 If I am sad, she’s more sad there. I wish my mom a happy birthday again at midnight. She requested that I go to Pitalo Church to do our tradition.⛪️

IMG_1403.jpeg

I am kind of sad because I am all alone, but she continued and said that I should go with Justine. I am so happy to hear that because even though my mom is not with me, I know someone is here for me and who is ready to join me in any situation.❤️

IMG_1405.jpeg

Morning came🌤️, I did all the household chores and I also did the laundry before going to Justine’s house.🧺 Since already haddy done everything, I took a rest for a minute and prepared myself. I left the house around 3 p.m. in the afternoon. I arrived at Justine’s house, and she was still not ready when I came. She is still on her phone because, as she said, they have no water. When their water had already come back, she took a bath, and I waited in their living room. When she was done, we departed from their home and quickly went to Pitalo Church because my grandmother said that the church would close at 6 p.m., and we left around 5 p.m.🕰️

IMG_1412.jpeg

IMG_1413.jpeg
Pitalo Church⛪️

We took a minibus for travel going to Pitalo Church.🚍 We arrived safely. We proceed to what we call “pamisahanan sa mga kalag,” or the feast of souls. I just give the list of pawns of separated souls; it’s up to you how much you will pay, and I pay 100 pesos because there are a lot of names.

IMG_1415.jpeg

IMG_1419.jpeg

IMG_1430.jpeg

After that we proceed to buy some candles for my mom’s request which is to do our tradition that when someone in our family celebrated a birthday we should go to Pitalo Church and do the what we call a “dagkot” like we buy candles and give it to a old lady then she will do the “pasinog” or pray for the person who celebrates their birthday. When she is done, she will give it back to us, and that’s the time that we will light the candles and make a prayer. I just bought candles worth 40 pesos.🕯️The line is so long, so we patiently waiting for our turn.

IMG_1426.jpeg

When we finished our prayers, we left the church and decided to go to the plaza and have some "isaw,” or fried chicken intestines, and of course, dynamite, my favorite, as well as Justine.

IMG_1442.jpeg

IMG_1448.jpeg

She said that we should spend a little time together to lessen my sadness, so I agreed because I also wanted to spend time with her and do a lot of "chikas,” our favorite part when we met. (HAHAHAHAHAHHA😅)

IMG_1451.jpeg
Streetfoods🍡

We ate while talking about some of the latest “chikas” that she missed. As always, our bond is full of laughter.😂 She never disappoints in making me happy within little things. She’s the kind of friend that is one call away; she will always be by your side, whether you’re at your worst or succeeding. She is a very supportive friend; that’s why I really love and cherish her so much.🫶🏻

IMG_1455.jpeg

I have a scheduled appointment where I will get my nails done. So, after those talking and eating moments, we go to the house where my nails will be done.💅🏻 I treated myself because I guess I deserve it after all.

IMG_1436.jpeg

After that bittersweet journey, we planned to head home.🏠

Even though your loved ones will not always be by your side, as long as they remain in your heart and you love them, you are ready to understand everything.💖

IMG_1462.png
Best Mom✨

Happy Birthday to the best mom in the world! 🎂👩🏻 I love you so much, and I miss you everyday. Take care, mama, and we will wait for you! 🫶🏻💗

As I draw to a close, let us never forget that supporting one another is what will always make us stronger.

Let’s wrap this up and continue our engaging conversations in my next story.

IMG_1421.jpeg
Twinnie🎀

I'm very grateful that you took the time to read my blog post. I'm excited for our more upcoming insightful talk. Stay tuned for more interesting dialogues and captivating stories that will pique your attention!

See you! and have a nice day!🫶

Lovelots!💌🌷

Sort:  

Happy natal Day to your mom,

Thank you so much sir @intoy.bugoy! I'll make sure to pass on your wishes to my mom.😊

Happy birthday your mom @amishu. 🎉🎂 I pray for her good health and prosperity.

Thank you so much! I really appreciate your kind wishes for my mom kuya @cup-bearer .🙏💗

Congratulations @amishu! You have completed the following achievement on the Hive blockchain And have been rewarded with New badge(s)

You received more than 2750 upvotes.
Your next target is to reach 3000 upvotes.
You received more than 250 HP as payout for your posts, comments and curation.
Your next payout target is 500 HP.
The unit is Hive Power equivalent because post and comment rewards can be split into HP and HBD

You can view your badges on your board and compare yourself to others in the Ranking
If you no longer want to receive notifications, reply to this comment with the word STOP

Check out our last posts:

Our Hive Power Delegations to the April PUM Winners
Feedback from the May Hive Power Up Day
Hive Power Up Month Challenge - April 2024 Winners List

Thank you so much @hivebuzz for my new achievement! Lovelots🫶🏻💗

Awesome work @amishu! You're well on your way to reaching your Hive goals. Keep buzzing!

BTW, we noticed we miss your support for our proposal. Mays we ask you to check it out and consider supporting it?
All you need to do is to click on the "support" button on this page: https://peakd.com/proposals/248.
Thank you!

Happiest Birthday to your Mom!

It's great to have a one all away friend, they are the ones who will be forever cherished.

Thanks so much @ayane-chan!☺️ I'll definitely pass on your wishes to her. Having a lifelong friend like her means the world.🫶🏻💗

Happy Birthday to your Mother Ma'am @amishu I hope God will give her more blessings, good health, and more years to celebrate.

Thank you very much @diamondinthesky!🫶🏻 I really appreciate your kind wishes for my mom. I'll make sure to tell her your lovely words.☺️💖

Happy Birthday to your mother, Miss @amishu. May you always be healthy and smooth in all your affairs

Thank you so much @riyat!🥰 I'll make sure to pass along your kind wishes to my mom.🫶🏻

Fino, feliz cumpleaños. El dos de éste mes fue el mio xd. Saludos

Thank you so much @fonestreet!☺️ Advance happy birthday to you too. Regards!💗

Your welcome, hope u enjoy ur day tho. ThankU 💌

awwww, so sweet. :)

Appreciate it, thank you @chinito!✨💖

Happy birthday to your mom po! Best wishes for her🫶.

Thank you so much @tvlipz02!😍💗

happy bday ate gae kog chocolate🥰

soon daw dae ig uli niya BWHAHAHAHAHAHAHA