I already knew this and a lot of you likely already figure this out as well but you are likely never going to have enough status, be rich enough, be jacked enough, be handsome enough, drive a cool enough car, memorize enough bible verses, have cool enough tattoos, or recite enough Anchorman, Zoolander, and Superbad lines to obtain and retain the women you really want and who you feel like you deserve on a looks equivalency scale.
There might be a 1 or 2% chance some smalltown girl hook armed you in High School and for the time being you are still together. For the other 98% of guys out there either you have given up or on this constant climb to become better which will oftentimes get you scraps in countries like the United States.
I'm not here to complain about the situation. I want to provide my findings through my observations and talking to guys all over the country and the World about the current dating dynamics.
Everything we do in this world is to obtain and retain women and the attention of women. A lot of people will fight tooth and nail in an attempt to dispute or deny this but if a man has normal testosterone levels and is active they are driven constantly by this.
Guys will even say they stopped pursuing women years ago and couldn't be happier. Then you realize they wrote that in the comment section of a RedPill YouTube video. They aren't happy or at peace with the situation at hand.
In the United States the mass majority of situations are a date down like the picture above. You could have your health and fitness on point and what you attract is likely 2 or 3 notches below your looks equivalency. This is the shocking reality but I have experienced this many MANY times first hand.
Suddenly you are the clear and obvious Apex Predator and you are getting the half smiles from the morbidly obese women.
The women are able to get away with poor health here because the government will support them and men are forced to be extreme scrapsexuals. 🤢
Why I Went Elite Monk Status
Me and one of my friends in California both got to a point where we knew if we continued to encumber our time with the women we were trying to talk to it was going to burn too much time and we wouldn't ascend to the level we would if we just dialed in. It's risky because you are losing time and your age will further and further hurt you as time goes on.
Some guys will lie to you about this and say to just focus on your grind and some dime piece chick is going to fall in your lap. That's almost never going to happen. You still have to be presenting yourself a certain way and putting out content and showing up places where there are women for there to even be the slim potential for anything to occur.
If you are the guys who is over 6' tall, athletic, have abs, are funny and personable and the whole bit the women will at some point find a way to derail the situation the majority of the time. Ask Tom Brady and Brad Pitt.
Can you imagine being an active player in the NFL and the undisputed GOAT 🐐 with objectively good looks and the chick still isn't satisfied and is even cheating on you with her Jujitsu Coach?!?!
In my experience I get better reactions from women when I'm 210lb or even 205lb. In the picture above I was 211lb. The issue is I have more throwing and hitting power at 220lb but my jawline isn't as sharp and my abs and taper aren't as good. I have tested this with the women.
So I'm out here getting very legitimate hitters out bossing out and earlier in the spring to get my shoulder in shape I trained to throw the javelin and entered an open meet and crushed the competition so these guys who are primarily 21-23 years old haven't arrived where I'm at around here. The hitters who are primarily 25-35 are getting out.
Even at the point you are winning the Olympics or are in the MLB or you are Superman himself its not necessarily going to convert to getting with the women you want or having a family with some hottie.
There were dudes winning multiple Olympics with a great look like we see with Andreas above that seemingly didn't get married and sort of disappeared from existence.
Superman himself appears to be single and said he plays video games like 4 hours / day.
So What About The Success Stories?
I have asked all my friends at various times and one of the guys I recently asked who is from New York City said none of the guys from High School or College ended up with a chick where people are giving the nod of approval and it seems to be a good situation. NOT 1 🤯🤯🤯
Same thing when I look at it myself for the most part. There are a couple situations where I can say it is a decent situation but most situations are a severe date down or ended in a divorce or custody battle. Just pure carnage.
So What's The Solution?
Guys I speak from experience here. I'm not some dude who didn't put in the work and has no receipts.
So what was wrong with these chicks? Well the chick with red hair basically was a meth baby and had addiction issues. She was saying weird stuff right off the bat about how some guy was trying to sex traffic her up in Chicago. I was like WTF? Then she admits she downs bottles of cough surup at her job at Dollar General to get through her shifts. It was going to be a major cleanup job on that chick even though she was hot.
The chick pushing me in the shopping cart in Miami kept going on about Pete Buttigieg and even had a shirt with him on it. It was weird. She also secretly smoked cigarettes but despite all this I was still dealing with the situation and ultimately she got super stressed out and stopped talking to me. In these situations you have to go no contact unfortunately which may or may not work in 2024. Recently I had a chick who cut me off come back around.
We are all just trying to adapt to this hellscape and I didn't grow up saying I was going to become an extreme savage when I grow up. This is just the situation we are in.
Usually when they are a looks equivalent there are MAJOR issues.
A lot of women are looking for a lifestyle sponsor / sugar daddy and a lot of chicks have turned to whoring themselves out. I'm not trying to say its right or wrong I'm just saying that is what's going on more and more.
I have had several women joke around about needing a Sugar Daddy. They Aren't JOKING..... in reality they want me to drop a precious bag of Dogecoins on their head just for existing.
I have never directly paid cash money to a chick. I get why guys do though because they are trying to overcome the gap that other guys might be presenting in the way of looks, physique, athleticism, status, height..... etc. I get it.
I'm honestly not trying to player hate on the guys leading ultra heavy with their wallet.
I have just had to adapt to this reality that a lot of dudes are paying cash money to these chicks that 30 years ago would have been your girl next door from a good family. Now they are selling themselves. It's just the reality.
GeoMax
My experience in Canada last summer was eye opening. I had a higher level of traction up there with a higher tier of chicks. On average the Canadian women are hotter than American women. The same goes for Australian women.
Why didn't I stay up there? I thought about it. The one chick that I could have really see a future with was trying to pit me against some dude who supposedly had a penthouse in downtown Toronto. I called bullshit on it and told her there is a reason she was bringing me in late night. Homeboy wasn't getting the job done. He just had deep pockets. Told her if she went that route her kids are getting cut from 8th grade basketball. 😂
Imagine pulling up in a Bentley in a foreign country and fucking the spirit out of her multiple times to where she is saying she has never been that wet in her entire life and I still lost traction.
We are all ruined in a lot of ways from this current dating climate. Should have been a lock. 🔒 Not anymore!
I know what you are thinking? Maybe Brian's game isn't that good? I have played devils advocate with this one and the overall statistics paint a bleak picture for many countries. Birthrate implosions, high suicide rates, the lack of sex getting so rampant they are reporting on it calling it a sex recession.
Also I have made a lot of anecdotal observations and when I see 95% of hot female college athletes always single I know there is a huge issue. Why isn't the hot track girl dating a stud puppy on the track team? Well because I entered the competition and blew everyone out and drove away in a Bentley and then went city to city locking up professional hitters on the baseball field. But I'm too old. But then that jacked 6'3" firefighter doesn't have blue eyes and there is always and issue and nothing is ever good enough.
Social media has really made people think there is something always better out there and I'm not trying to point fingers but a lot falls back to the women because they get a 1000X the attention of a man with an equivalent look. They are often the ones pulling the plug on a situation or marriage. The statistics show this.
I think my best bet to GeoMax are places like Poland, Croatia, Montenegro. I think if I go to Germany or the Netherlands it will be fleeting traction. If all that fails I would be better off taking up residency in Canada or Australia in comparison to anywhere in the United States. This is based on real world experience.
What Should You Do
I think anyone reading this should seriously consider trying to essentuate your X Factors. For Instance I don't grow facial hair on my chin because I found that the dimple in my chin is an X Factor for me.
Then plot course to live overseas where the women are more attractive on average and where the mindset might take us back a couple generations. The women are on a weird woke journey in the United States. Most men aren't going to find that to our advantage here.
"Settling" here is likely to be a severe date down because most of the legitimately hot women wait until they are aged out or suddenly way overweight to lock themselves in a relationship here. They would be way better off just picking a dude they are into when they are 21 but the chicks who generally doing that here are picking a dude who is 23 which can make sense. They generally aren't looking for guys in their 30s even if you far out play the competition here. If she stays single she isn't going to starve and she can rack up hundreds of thousands in student loan, auto loan, and credit card debt so she is going to get by without a dude around.
That's why if you build yourself up as much as humanly possible and go to where the women are way hotter on average and you can vastly out play the competition it would stand to reason the friction is going to be less.
I would say the sooner you get out the better. Looking back on it I should have pulled the plug in my 20s but the reason I didn't is because the best baseball is played in the United States so that has partially kept me here but more and more International opportunities are presenting themselves st this point.
I would say completely giving up isn't a good answer because you have to pick your vices in this world. If you aren't getting that dopamine rush from sex you will have to overcome it with some potentially unnatural way like drugs.
In a lot of respects this environment of staying on it has kept me in way better health than most who either gave up or packed it in early and settled for the scraps.
Life is getting tougher than I thought! Here, there’s daily news about ex-lovers trying to get back with their divorced wives or girlfriends. Usually these women refused to get back and they were either shot or their spouses got killed! I am beginning to understand why they just couldn’t get to start a new life.
Very sad and terrible situation over there! You need to move to a better place soon.
By the way, Eastern European countries would be safer and better in time of global troubles like war or financial collapse. You have less than 2 years’ window of opportunity to get to a safer place.
I knew several Europeans moving to South East Asian countries such as the Philippines, Vietnam and Thailand.
But Montenegro and Bulgaria seem like a place of potential to me, I would prefer Bulgaria. A safer place shoukd have easy entry and exit points, just in case of emergency!
Please move soon, usa would be in lots of troubles by the end of this year. The exit tax would become very high as more people are leaving.
Here's your problem about getting traction!
You need to be a DOUBLE ALPHA now!
I really like hoe_math on U-Tube. Short and usually insightful. And neat drawings.
I certainly agree to some aspect that you have to be better than the woman but that is rooted in biology.
My physical capabilities are greater than a woman even if she is might height. Like if she is 6' If she can bench 155lb that is going to be a pretty big mark. I can rep 225lb 13 times or at least that is my best.
So all thing equal to a point where she is an athlete and all that she isn't going to be as strong as me.
But then just that isn't good enough for them. The really hot ones have conjured up a fictitious character in their head that doesn't even exist in Hollywood, the NFL, NBA, MLB, or NHL
To add to that they act like guys like me are just some Normal everyday guy and I will go to the extent that they think guys like Jake Paul are just normal. They are very confused and delusional because they hear these big numbers and it is going to get way worse. They will hear some huge contract for some guy in the MLB or something and don't realize all the details. Like Ken Griffey Jr was the 3rd highest paid player on the Reds last year and he hasn't been in a Reds uniform since 2008. They play these huge contracts out way into the future.
Then they will hear some huge number for some chick on OnlyFans and think that is normal stuff.
Also another trend I have noticed is women sort of having this connection with several guys who don't even live in their same state or same country that they have never met. I probably have about 10 of these type of chicks that follow my stories on Instagram but I never got to meet them in person. Then these chicks can't find a guy in their city that has Millions of people but they are all about the Brian Phobos character and where he is at. Then they will throw in the towel one day and get married to a gay guy they can boss around. It's weird.
See? Your problem is that you are not 12 feet tall, with 12 pack abs and making 12 figures!
It is all very irrational. And wimminz magazines insist that wimminz should be that way.
Just do what you want! Follow your heart.
The problem is women want their man to be better than them, but really want to be in control too.
Like, this lady i used to do fixing work for. She is better than many woman about understanding construction, but she will say/ask for shtupid things, because she just doesn't understand mechanics. But, she insists on arguing these points. I am polite and tactful, but really should have said, "look beatch, i have forgotten more about fixing things than you will ever know, your opinion about how to do this is not necessary, not helpful, and not wanted."
So, if i can be at a level 10x of a woman, and she still thinks she is in the ball game, then women have no self perspective.
My guess is they learn this from the TV shows. I have seen parts of them passing by TVs, and it is all that way, where the woman gives advice, to correct the men.
I think their minds have been warped many different ways. For instance the celebrities they look up to are ridiculous the majority of the time. Like Megan Fox has 3 sons and they are all "Trans". Dresses them up like girls and brain washes them.
So it's really hard to put ourselves in the mind space of a lot of these women. We would think the only think that would save them is if they came from a good family and had a couple older brothers to look out for them but that isn't necessarily going to protect them from all the other BS.
But yeah I agree that a lot of women don't have self perspective. They start to believe that they look like the girl in the pictures they took when it is all clown makeup and digital filters. A lot of these women's look is 80% a fabrication. Then they think they look better than guys that actually have a comparatively better look.
One of the big issues is there isn't a lot of positive answers that we can provide to sort of circumvent the situation at hand and find some diamond in the rough.
Even the Amish, home schooled, and extremely religious girls are ending up in a situation where they aren't with anyone either and act extremely awkward. In times gone past they would get married to some little geek but I'm noticing that isn't even playing out as much as you would think.
I would say the biggest thing I notice in the United States is the women are so out of shape that just a woman not being overweight and she suddenly think she is Aphrodite. So it would stand to reason just getting to a place where the women are in better health on average and where our money goes further seems like a no brainer.
Have you seen the video of a woman twirling around an aluminum bo staff?
So many women are saying that she can beat up the average man.
Not realizing that she is nothing compared to top men. I mean nothing! Everyone says she is so fast, and i can clearly see all the movement (meaning its slow). most men i know would just smash her nose, twirling stick or not. Or, if they are feeling nice, catch the stick, and then throw her on the floor and sit on her.
The average guy, especially the fat ones, could just fall on her. Game over.
Anyway, the woman think that the movies could be real.
That same woman across the street thinks that female vikings fought alongside the men. Because of the show "Vikings". Playing on a field, pretending a battle for the audience at a ren-faire, you have to particularly mindful of the women engaged in the battle.
And the top guys there, would knock a woman off of her feet, even if she blocked his sword. They can break her wrists if she tries to strong arm the block.
It is so frustrating, because these women think they are super heroes. And there is nothing you can do to change their minds, except let them go to ER or the morgue. Not even videos of top women getting beat up by an average trans.
So, women think they are middle management, and they think they are all that. And deserve to get with someone on Musk's level.
Nothing i know gets through to these woman. And that means they are dangerous to be around.
I haven't seen that particular video but I know what you mean on women becoming delusional about being able to beat up men or there is always this reaccuring conversation about a woman playing in the NBA or the MLB.
And don't get me wrong. I like women's sports and like athletic in shape women but you really can't compare the two. Also what a lot of women don't realize is that Hollywood isn't real and a lot of the women on Instagram are on Testosterone. These fitness chicks and these jacked crossfit chicks who have abs year around are oftentimes on Performance Enhancing Drugs. The guys in those categories as well. So people's perception of what is naturally possible is very skewed at this point.
I have had this conversation with guys about what percentage of guys in the MLB are likely on PEDs. I feel like it is probably 50% but some guys I have talked to think it could be more than 80%.
There are multiple guys on each team now throwing over 100mph???? Like that's normal. Seems pretty absurd for that to be natural capability
Abs are weird. To get photo shoot abs, you usually have to drop water a day before.
And, during the off season, it is so easy for abs to disappear into a little fat. Like, normal fat levels. But, that is the "image" of men being fit, to have the abs defined.
And, our idea of a good looking woman is just not fat. Some crossfit / athletic women really do look nice. (but i like breasts)
It is really hard to say what percentage are on performance enhancers. And, when one starts taking some, everyone else falls behind, so all will be doing it soon. It is very sad state of affairs.