Why do people shade themselves on the internet?
Have you come across a heated argument online before? Just a single tweet or an unreasonable comment can break the internet for the day.
So on Monday, two popular artists in my country began to troll themselves, and to date, they are still shading themselves, why though? The funny part is that their fans have joined the war and are also supporting their preferred celebrities, raining abuses on those against their favourite celebrity making the whole internet a toxic place to be at the moment.
Studies have shown that most people who troll on the internet are either narcissists, sadists, or experiencing a high level of boredom, while some are just envious of the other person and others just don't possess good moral values and discipline.
What are they all lacking? POSITIVE RELATIONSHIP & LOVE.
To think that these celebrities used to be good buddies got me thinking about what a positive relationship truly meant to them. The worst of all was when one trolled the other with the death of his son and I felt really bad about it, why on earth would you use someone's predicament to mock them when you know that no one knows what tomorrow will bring?
I said all of these people lack love at home, because a person with so much love, will know that words can make or mar a person, love will move you to be gracious with your speech and to be empathetic.
Positive relationships are not easy to come by, especially in our generation, it requires a lot of effort and intentionality and most people today just put on a charade to care but they do not.
Have you noticed how people are so easy to talk badly against someone who was once their friend just because they had a fallout?
A positive relationship has a bearing on our overall existence, it contributes to the sanity of the society at large and also brings us true happiness. Firstly, it begins from our homes, we must learn to communicate properly, forgive, love genuinely, celebrate each others' success, show support and mutual respect and learn how to manage conflict before it gets out of hand.
Parents have a lot to do in this aspect, to make their homes a haven for their children so that they do not pour out of an empty cup to society in return, preach love, practice love and spread love!
Love helps a person to accommodate their excesses, and they are patient with each other because Love is a universal language, I do not consider love as just a mere feeling but a choice, to do right by others, nurture great bonds and show true support to others.
The people who constantly hide behind their keyboards to troll others should learn to do better, love makes the world go round, and spread love everywhere you find yourself, in real life and on the media.
This goes beyond just the internet as well, in our daily lives, to people we meet, strangers and friends, may we be an advocate for love and peace.
May we all learn to cultivate a positive relationship with one another as the benefits are worth it and not just limit it to members of our families, romantic partners or close friends but to all whom we meet.
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You are right, it is better to start with love from your family. We have to teach our children love. Only then will its reflection be visible in society.
Love is the only universal language which helps in promoting peace. Thank you for stopping by.
You are absolutely right.
Yep, you spread the message right out of my heart. People who display hostility to others via any means simply tell the world that they lack love.
Good thing is that it can be learned and cultivated consciously, so there is no excuse.
There isn't an excuse for being cruel, love can be learned truly!
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Love answers everything. Love will make you not talk harshly to another person. Love will make you understand someone and not use their predicament to mock them. Some people lack this and it is what is making things get heated up. Love makes positive relationships and we must work towards building that.
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Love conquers all, thank you for your great feedback.
To be honest, I don't understand why the hate, and to think that they used so much energy in hating is what left me mouth agape.
If only every one will agree and speak that one language "love" our country will be sweet aswear
That's so true, love is the only universal language.❤
Just like we say charity begins at home, loving also begins at home. A home lacking of love will impact the children such that they won't know how to love and care for others and vice versa. Sometimes when I see how the so called fans of these celebrities troll, drag themselves, I just wonder how we got here. It's so saddening.
#dreemerforlife
So sad Sis, I hope we all learn to speak the universal language which is Love.
Why would a person even allow themselves to rattle just because of the words of a stranger online? It beats me. People are a reflection of their upbringing. It is sad to say that many are lacking.
Well done Dreemerge
#dreemerforlife
You're so right, people are truly a reflection of their upbringing, may we all reflect love and light wherever we find ourselves. Thank you for visiting.
This reminds me of a young girl i know. She has such a docile temperament that she stays cool with those she's had a misunderstanding with. She doesn't keep grudges and just moves on. These artists, which of them?
Dreemport
Davido and Wizkid haha, they will be alright. I just think love conquers every shortcoming if only we let it lead.
True that! I was thinking it was Davido and Peruzzi because that’s the only two I know that have been close to the point it caused Wahala
Thanks a bunch.❤❤
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