It's one thing to be civilized and ...

in Reflections13 days ago




While, another is getting bothering all the time.

Look, I wasn't born that day. When someone comes to fuck with me, I send them, as the Mexicans say, "fuck it."

As I read somewhere, "people don't do things to you, it's how you take it" then no one is going to have emotional responsibility, be careful, I have to accept everything in peace and love, well look, noooo, that's it!

Running away from toxic people is the most sensible and liberating thing there is. I've experienced it, and it feels great, especially when I send them the hell away.

There is a lot of talk about civilization, and it is one thing to be civilized and another thing when we go around sending people to kill or doing things that are not correct, in this post I am not talking about that. I'm talking that my they fuck me once, I fuck them twice, that's what I'm talking about.

I do believe that you have to defend yourself, that you have to attack when you are attacked, and when someone comes to fuck me, without a doubt, he comes disguised many times as peace and love with you and by the way that they love you, and then they fuck you over, not that I have the right to live well, to live in peace, to live peacefully in community.

And when someone comes to bother me, for sure, I don't think "you have to forgive 7 times", because I forgive you!, and it's okay, I forgive you only once, and not every time they ask for forgiveness. I get really annoyed by people who care about peace and love all the time, maybe because sometimes, I'm an intolerant person, and it's human to feel that way, from time to time.

But to me the people who are loving and loving all the time with phrases of "oh, I do love and love you" and what you turn your back on they stab you in the back and what they do is destroy you with their questions and comments, those people to me "seem very weak".

Something very important that I must highlight is that the more vulnerable you look to others, the faster they will manage to affect you, and NO, don't let yourself be fucked.

I keep doing my little social service walk saying things as they are, haha not as the hypersensitive ones want to hear them, whose defense mechanism is to play hardball, everything bothers them and they criticize everything.

Noooo way... what laziness with people eat flowers and politically correct!

I do believe that one should attack when one is attacked, I do believe that one should respond when they mess with one. And they know that when I defend myself I become bad for many, why do you have to let yourself be fucked? Well, no. I have grown-up children and since childhood I taught them to be respectful, kind and very polite, but not assholes, nor fools, they learned to defend themselves.

That's the idea and my reflection of this post: I don't attack you, don't come to attack me. A stop to the attack in time, saves us bad times. And end of the story! Have you had to deal with people like that? Any comments you make here, we can chat about it.

Janitze.





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