If I look at my life, I see that the worst things that have happened to me are actually the best things that have ever happened.
They were the catalysts for positive change and were the deepening of lessons and wisdom that had to integrate into my life.
I remember in the past whenever something ‘bad’ happened, it would completely dishearten me and would consume me until I found a way to deal with it emotionally. Yet through growing up and having experienced life more and more, I now see these hardships as something I welcome.
I changed my perspective from ‘why did this happen to me?’ to ‘what can I learn from this?’.
It has completely renewed my idea of what is positive and what is negative in life.
Life is life and life is going to happen.
And of course sometimes things are going to be horrible, hard and super tough and I am no way wanting to bypass how incredibly difficult it can be. I just want to share my own perspective of opening up my mind to the possibilities these hard things can bring with it.
The positive possibilities.
When a door closes, a window opens right?
Just something to keep in mind when thinking about what has happened in the last week on POB.
Over and out,
Ashley
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I honestly don't stress too much when bad things happen to me these days... maybe it'll become a hilarious story I can tell later... or maybe, as you said, it might force some change and growth.
My partner does get overwhelmed by the slightest set back, and honestly, I think that does help me keep things in perspective... although I'm sure my nonchalance is not always reassuring.
That is good to hear! Well done you.
Hope you are well!! Let's have a chat on Discord soon :)
We are super well! Let's! I'd absolutely love that!
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OOOOh thank you!! :)
My pleasure, it was a good read :)
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That's just the way things of life happen, is all a Mistry when it happens but we fail to realize that bad thing turned out to be a blessing in our lives.
Such classified to be bad actually may have on the other hand been a savior because the initial plan fail to work out.
Example, when we talk about an investor who wants to invest in a building but did not have money when is due to invest, eventually he missed it cos he did not have finance to do so when it was due for payment.
When the house started it collapse in one year without being finished.
So not being able to invest due to lack of fund have save him from such loss.