If there is one thing that shouldn’t ever be taken lightly, it’s family time. It should really be treated as it should and when it’s in motion, distractions like phones and the like shouldn’t be tolerated. And by family time, I’m not just talking about when the family goes out on trips and has a good time with each other. It can also be in cases as simple as family dinner, or movie night.
These days, it’s surprising how addicted many of us have become to our phones. Even when we’re eating, we can’t drop them even for a few minutes. As we’re shoving spoonful after spoonful into our mouths, our eyes remain glued to our screens while our thumbs keep on scrolling. It has become a part of us that we just can’t seem to be able to do without.
And if you as me, that’s bad. Dinner time for instance is that one part of the day when the entire family would be together in the same place and can have conversation on things in a neutral environment. Right from morning, the kids would go to school while the parents would go to work, there wouldn’t be time for chitchat during those times. At least the deep kinds where the parents can know what is really going on in the lives of their kids.
Then, in the afternoon, the parents could be occupied with other things in the house while the kids would be trying to do their homework. Or at the very least, be involved in other things kids their age get involved in. It’s only during dinner that everyone will have the time to talk and be open with each other. That’s why when you watch movies, they make a big deal out of family dinners because it’s not just about the meal, it’s about the bonding that happens during the meal. And when it’s over, it’ll be till the next dinner.
So, for me, the use of phones during dinner will be prohibited. I don’t care how important it is. Matter of fact, your phone will be in your room so we can all speak without distraction and bond as a real family should. Because once a phone is allowed in during dinner, it’ll start with a notification. And soon, it’ll be difficult to put the phone down. No one will want to talk anymore simply because they have their phones in their hands.
Phones are one of the main reasons people are growing distant from each other because the avenues that would have brought them close are no longer in place. When people go to have fun, instead of actually “having” fun, they prefer to take pictures and make videos. That won’t be the case for me. Family time will be family time, and it’ll be a rule that I’ll enforce. This is because a lot of us actually no longer know how to have fun, that’s why we think that if we’re not recording the fun, or if we’re not telling our friends and followers about it, then it’s not fun enough.
So, for me, as long as it’s family time, then it’s a strict “No Phones” policy. I’ll probably extend it to other things like movie night as well. How can we be watching movies together and you’ll be busy on your phone? Is something doing you?!
But then, I’m not a father yet, so what do I know? I’m just telling you all how I’d run my ship when I finally get to that part of the sea.
You are making a huge point sir and this shouldn't be something to take lightly in this age we live in.
The use of smartphone is a big issue especially during family time because it only cause distraction and it would be impossible for them to bond properly.
Yesso! All it does is to bring about distraction and the people won't even notice it because they're so engrossed in their phones.
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I sincerelycan nott understand the habit. Wonder why some people don't see it as an anomaly. I grew up seeing people at home put down their phones when they were being addressed. It didn't even matter if it was for some random talks.
One time when one of my elder brothers was talking to his younger one and the younger one's phone rang, he took an excuse, picked the call and told the other person on the line(his boss) that he'd call him back shortly as he was in a conversation with his big brother. I remember that day clearly. And the action surprised me.
Family time should be kept sacred. As the days go by, there's little time for gatherings and to create memories and that fun and bonfing time should not be marred because of a phone.
Family time should be sacred, it's sad that a lot of us these days don't attach much value to it as we used to. Courtesy of smart phones.
The addiction to phone is growing day after day. I no longer enjoy food without watching a movie, it's now as if watching a movie is a spice in the food.
Being without phone during family time will make everyone give their undivided attention, and force them to participate in every activities.
Hehe... I can really relate because it happens to me as well. I have to watch movie while eating. What can save me bayii???
I don't know because I do it too. I wanted to say we could change if we really want to, but bro! I don't think I can change yet cos of that feeling while eating and watching a good movie😂😂.
Na to add am for prayer list o 😂
It is so unfortunate that family ties have been eroded because relatives would rather stay glued to their phones rather than connect during family sittings or whatnot.
Boundaries should be set to maintain standard. That's what we need.
Boundaries should be set and maintained. Also, we must make sure we lead by example. We can't tell our kids not to do something and then end up doing something else. That's very important!
An exemplary lifestyle is a nonverbal way to teach children what is right.
Right from when a child begins to go to school, he or she is already moving away from his family gradually till he begins to work and all of those. Everyone will be busy during the week and the only time when some people get free is on Sunday. Just a day off the week so it wouldn’t make any sense to be pressing phone when you’re supposed to be having a proper family time
Yeah... That's what makes it so annoying! Just one day of the entire week for your family. It shouldn't be too hard, right?
The addition to phone increases on a daily basis. I person find it hard to be without my phone for a very long time.
I can be so addicted to my phone most times and I feel empty sometimes if I'm not with my phone.
I really support the motion that phones should be restricted while we are with our family to help us build a strong relationship amidst themselves and also to avoid divided attention.
Phones should be restricted, but we also have to play our parts and discipline ourselves because it's that's the only way we can ever make a real difference.
I agree with you
And it's a very valid point I will take note of in my space.
Thank you
Mobile phone is the thing which is the reason for decreasing the intersection between family members although we are also the reason for it as using it depends on us. So at least we should try to avoid using mobile to create a smooth intersection to make the bond stronger between family members.
Yeah... It's just not as easy as it sounds, which is why its a major problem nowadays.
Using phone while eating does not shows dis-interest in a family gathering.. it tells how such person lack respect.
Yeah.
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