You need to do an #introduceyourself post and put your picture in it. I have been telling you that and you are going to have to trust me, it will be helpful to you. Get a picture of yourself in your surroundings (or several is even better if you have stories to tell with them). And tell us who you are, who is @doinita? What does she care about? Why is she here?
You can do it, so don't be shy. The experience will help you to understand even more.
And be very honest and it will be good, I promise :)