When I FEEL unhappy with something in my manifested experience, what I'm really experiencing is the dissonance, like nails down a chalkboard, between the energetic vibration I exude from the core of my Being, and what my conscious mind tells me I want.
Always, always, when there is a lack of manifestation, there is a push-pull tension between the stated desire and deeply held beliefs and unconscious desire.
Because I KNOW this, I have a process I follow when things are not "happening" the way I think I want.
I take a great, big pause from 'the problem' - a few days or a week or more if I can.... and I try NOT to think about the issue at all. I refuse to decide or act. I distract myself. I get busy doing something else that makes my energy soar, and I bring myself to a calm, happy place through another route.
I then stay away from people and try to create lots of quiet places and alone time. I physically ASK my higher self to show me what I'm vibrating energetically that has manifested this thing I don't want, or failed to magic up what I DO want.
I pray to myself, if you will."
And then I listen.
Eventually, the answer comes as to what I'm vibrating energetically and how it is out of alignment with what I want or need. Sometimes it takes a day or two. The longest I have ever waited for an answer is just over 6 years. But the answer DID come.
Sometimes it's really, suddenly clear that it's perfectly fine to walk away, "Quit", if you will. But more often it's a recognition that I'm going about meeting my real desires and needs the wrong way. And so I don't NEED to "let go", "quit" or "walk away". I gain awareness and clarity on the real desire and vibration and, in that new flow space of alignment, something new rapidly comes along which simply eclipses the other scenario or manifestation.
We really don't need to decide to quit or let go, ever. We simply have to align with our feelings of joy and appreciation, and listen. In the great, eternal NOW where all things are already manifested, we are then able to flow and draw to ourselves the experience our souls need and choose.
Grateful for choice, Grateful for awareness. Alignment is everything.
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Such pearls of wisdom you share in this post! Alignment in progress! Xx
That's the guts feeling we should listen to. Our inner 'me' always told me what to do, when to do.
Thanks for the good write up!
this is so true, we need to take the time that we need to really listen to ourselves. Some people really struggle with giving themselves time, how impatient some can be. Great answer @artemislives xx
"We really don't need to decide to quit or let go, ever."
Exactly... Great post Artemis, very interesting thoughts!
Greetings!
Many a times it happen that mind won't let us to decide right or wrong, and the best to do is to distract yourself for some time and in process we automatically get the solution...pretty amazing how things get done ....the distraction helps mind to settle and focus from all direction and choosing the best
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I had goosebumps reading
Every cell in my body agrees, even the 'empty space' between just ignited and grants it for a fact. Go with the flow. No need to resist, simply accept.
It is what it is. Without me doing anything. My favorite principle from the Indian Vedanta (the blockchain is my witness here, so many comments … :)) is the principle of economy of effort. "To do less and accomplish more" and most ultimately to do nothing and accomplish everything. I love the sentiment. Resteemed & followed!
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ooh lla laa. .. so deep this week! beautiful response.. wOwww.. <3
This is amazing, I don't think I could have worded it better: you pray to yourself! That's exactly it. Because whatever seems like it doesn't want to happen is not just external, but neither is it only you. It's how the two forces meet each other.
You know what? I think you just inspired me to a reply to TribeSteemUp's biweekly question. But I really don't want to steal your idea, so I'll read your answer post before and make sure I won't.