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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 22 hours ago

  What Nobody Tells You About Starting Over

  I have started over more than once. Not always by choice. Sometimes circumstances simply removed what was there and starting over was the only honest response to what…

  $0.68

  • Pending payout amount: $0.68
  • Breakdown: 0.00 HBD, 6.03 HIVE, 6.03 HP
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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 3 days ago

  The Hardest Part of Growth Is Who You Leave Behind

  Nobody tells you about the social cost of becoming a different person. The way growth is supposed to be celebrated and how it actually disrupts things in ways that are more…

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  • Pending payout amount: $0.47
  • Breakdown: 0.00 HBD, 4.22 HIVE, 4.22 HP
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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 5 days ago

  You Are Allowed to Change Your Mind About Who You Are

  I described myself a certain way for years. Used specific words. Had a reliable self narrative that explained why i was the way i was, what i valued, how i operated. It felt…

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  • Pending payout amount: $0.55
  • Breakdown: 0.00 HBD, 4.93 HIVE, 4.93 HP
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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 6 days ago

  I Stopped Trying to Fix People and Started Trying to Understand Them

  There was a person in my life i spent years trying to help in ways they had not asked for. Not maliciously. I genuinely cared about them and could see things in their situation…

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  • Pending payout amount: $0.40
  • Breakdown: 0.00 HBD, 3.57 HIVE, 3.57 HP
  • Payout tomorrow

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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 7 days ago

  I Watched Someone Die and It Permanently Changed How I Spend My Tuesdays

  Not in a dramatic way. Not a sudden shift toward grand gestures or bucket list adventures. More quiet than that. More ordinary than that. I was with someone in their last weeks…

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  • Pending payout amount: $0.60
  • Breakdown: 0.00 HBD, 5.34 HIVE, 5.34 HP
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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 8 days ago

  I Had to Grieve the Life I Thought I Would Have Before I Could Want the One I Actually Do

  At some point in my thirties i had to sit honestly with the gap between the life i had imagined for myself by now and the life i was actually living. source Not because…

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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 9 days ago

  Nobody Is Coming to Save You and That Is Actually Good News

  There was a long stretch where i operated on a kind of background faith that something external would eventually resolve things. The right opportunity would appear. Someone would…

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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 10 days ago

  Letting Go Does Not Mean You Did Not Care

  There is a version of letting go that gets misunderstood constantly. The one where you finally stop holding onto something or someone that was not working, and people around you…

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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 11 days ago

  The Way You Talk to Yourself Is the Most Important Conversation You Will Ever Have

  I catch it sometimes in the middle of ordinary things. Making a mistake at work and the internal response arriving immediately, sharp, unkind, in language i would never use…

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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 12 days ago

  I Stopped Waiting to Feel Ready and Just Started

  There was a thing i wanted to do for four years before i actually did it. Four years of being almost ready. Of waiting for the right conditions to align. Of accumulating reasons…

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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 13 days ago

  Stop Shrinking Your Dreams to Fit Other People's Comfort

  I told someone close to me about something i wanted to do once. Something that had been sitting in me for a while, something that genuinely excited me in the rare way that real…

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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 14 days ago

  I Learned More From the Things That Did Not Work Out Than From the Things That Did

  The successes in my life have been good to me. They gave me confidence, momentum, proof that certain approaches worked. I am grateful for them. But if i am being completely…

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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 15 days ago

  The Friends Who Tell You the Truth Are the Ones Actually Worth Keeping

  I had a friend who told me things i did not always want to hear. Not cruelly. Not with any visible enjoyment in delivering difficult news. Just honestly, in the straightforward…

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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 16 days ago

  Loyalty to the Wrong Things Will Cost You Everything

  I stayed somewhere for two years past the point it made sense because i felt i owed it loyalty. Not a person, a situation. A commitment i had made to myself at a time when i had…

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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 18 days ago

  I Finally Stopped Running From Myself and Turned Around

  For most of my twenties i was moving fast enough that i did not have to be in one place long enough to examine it. Always something next. Another goal, another plan, another…

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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 19 days ago

  The Highlight Reel Is Lying to You Every Single Day

  I went to a wedding a few years back. Beautiful by every visible measure. The photos looked extraordinary. Every detail considered and executed. The couple glowing. The guests…

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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 20 days ago

  I Thought I Was an Introvert but I Was Just Exhausted

  Thought I Was an Introvert but I Was Just Exhausted For years i identified strongly as an introvert. Preferred small gatherings, needed time alone after social events to…

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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 21 days ago

  The Conversations I Avoided the Longest Were the Ones I Needed Most

  There is a conversation i put off for almost two years. With someone close to me. About something that had been sitting between us quietly, unaddressed, changing the texture of…

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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 25 days ago

  I Am Still Figuring It Out and I Have Finally Made Peace With That

  I used to think that by a certain age you arrived somewhere. Not perfection, just a settled version of yourself that had most of the important questions answered. The career…

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• davingson (64)Touristin Indiaunited • 26 days ago

  The Version of Yourself at Your Lowest Was Still You

  I went through a period a few years back that i am not proud of, not in the details but in who i was during it. The decisions i made. The way i treated some people. The version…

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  • - Author $0.32
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