Day to Day …One Woman’s POV

There's a stubbornness in me that can never be frightened. My courage always rises at every attempt to intimidate me
—Jane Austen

It was a dark, silvery afternoon…the wind howling at 90 km an hour and I was headed to the lake to take pictures of the waves, of course.

As I approached the Lake Erie shoreline, I caught glimpses of the spray between houses and cottages and my anticipation grew and I became mono-focused on capturing “the” picture.

Newbie photographer that I was, I plowed up onto the pier concentrating on one thing—getting some good shots.

Another photographer who braved the winds and lurking dangers came up to me with his wife and warned me not to get near the canal, or I could be blown in and drown like others had before me.

It's not that bad out here, I thought.

Suddenly—a wind shear—one of the most powerful jolts I have ever experienced, almost blew me over. I dug my feet down with all my might.

The photographer and his wife shouted to me that my red mitts blew out of my coat pocket and were now floating in the canal!

We all moved behind one of the benches cemented to the pier to keep us grounded and from being blown in.

Of course I had my camera pointed to the bright speck bobbing around the swells.

It’s amazing what you’ll tell yourself when you feel excitement—you’ll even re-name fear and call it something else.

I wanted to celebrate my independence that I was out here in the midst of a storm.

I smiled inwardly at the howling winds. I am woman, hear me roar,

It was juvenile but freeing nonetheless.

And After a brief lunch break at the beach cafe, where I had retreated to recover, I was finally able to make my way back to my vehicle.

But the winds picked up again and I found myself swarmed by seagulls.

Click, click, click.

Everyone jumped into their cars, but I kept my camera pointed upwards.

There was a sudden storm of thundering white feathers and cawing birds.

Purple poop splattered my SUV and other cars on the pier.

People began honking their horns to scare the gulls away.

People were acting crazy like they were experiencing PTSD from Alfred Hitchcock’s, The Birds.

Not me, I’m super photographer.

It was a lie I told myself, but half-believed it.

Later that afternoon, back at my desk, I left off editing the images.

My mind was filled with white spume, grey waves and a leaden sky. But what was it that burdened me?

I felt as if a heavy iron lid clanged down over me, shutting up the heavens and the wild delight of a March day at the lake—and then it hit me.

The one thing I had left of Blake was claimed by the waves.

He bought me those wool mittens at Whistler when we were waiting for the Peak 2 Peak Gondola.

We rode in that glass enclosed cabin with a 360 degree view of mountains and trees—suspended like a tiny red bead on a wire stretched between two peaks.

And I thought it would go on forever—that this was a turning point in our lives and I saw our future ahead of us, gliding effortlessly through space.

Until the day I found him with Anne and watched the silver cord that joined us break.

And what joins us now is vague—is it mountains, snow? Or the bitter months it took to realize…

That memory is nurtured only be my need.

A cold shiver passed through me and I began to shake.

The truth finally penetrated.

Blake ‘moved on’ and never spared a thought about me. I was stuck either on a pier or five hundred feet up in space—all alone.

And Blake? He was spared that ache.

He had no memory of that day.

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