Lets Try something Different today! This post was written by @funnyman
He wanted me to share it with you guys : )
( He gets 100% of SBD from this post! )
Psychological study says that a normal person is 54% accurate in detecting lies and also a person is 10 to 200 times deceptive in a day. It become more intensive and deceptive when we communicate with a stranger. While communicating with a complete stranger a normal person lie about 3 times in 10 minutes. Neocortex, part of a brain, is responsible for lying activities. Greater the neocortex, greater will be its lying tendency. You must be wondering “Really? I don’t think so.” Well, Believe it or not but its the truth(I am not lying here).
How a lie can become truth to the other?
A lie is not a lie unless the other person accepts it. We can say lying is a cooperative act as said by Pamela Meyer. There is only 46% chance that a lie will be accepted. If it is accepted by the other person it becomes Truthful Lie.
“Everybody is affected by a disease called lie”
Why do people lie? There can be any number of reasons to lie to other people such as creating a appearance of a smart and intelligent person or a rich person or a creative person or to make someone happy or to build a relationship and the list goes on. There can be any selfish or social reasons to lie. Even a baby cry to check if its parents are paying attention to him/her.
“Lying is immortal”
How to spot a lie? In order to detect a lie, first of all you must be conscious and very attentive to even tiny details. If we follow the following methods we can improve the chance to detect a liar to 90%. But also there are professional liars among us so chances may vary from person to person.
1. Gestures —> Pay close attention to the gestures that he/she makes while accepting and neglecting a fact. Compare these gestures to know about a lie. Generally, a person touching its face while speaking tends to increase the probability that he/she is lying.
2. Complements —> When a person agrees to all of your opinion, then the person is definitely a liar.
3. Surprise —> When you are going with the flow of conversation with the other, make sure you ask them what they don’t expect.
4. Upper body —> When the other person lie, their upper body freezes for a moment. Pay close attention to it.
5. Eyes —> One of the most important part of human body to know if the other person is lying. Pay close attention to their eyes, if they moves frequently or if moves occasionally or completely stirred or if they are making eye contact or when they break their eye contact. Beware!!!, Professional liars are expert in maintaining good eye contact.
6. Repeated and Reversed story —> It is very famous method to know about a lie. Tell them to repeat a story and check if they tell exactly the same story or add some more details to it. Adding some more details in second time represents its genuinely and truthfulness. Another method is to ask them to reverse the story, if they stutter or break eye contact then they are definitely lying about the story. They just made it up.
7. Reaction Time —> Be ready to focus and analyse the response time to questions they answer.
8. Sweating —> Generally a sweating person in a cool environment makes sure that they are lying unless its a heredity condition.
“Lying is immortal and nobody can live without it”
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Hey kaylinart,
It's good that you're promoting @funnyman I've already connected with him a bit here on Steemit. Good for you and good for him!
@kus-knee (The Old Dog)
Hehe Yes! :) I don't mind promoting people!!
Thank you buddy!!!. Thanks for reading @kus-knee
This comment is a lie.
hahaha!! What!?
LOL!!!!
Thanks for promoting this. Also @funnyman thanks for this. I rarely lie, if ever, so I guess I'm vulcan. Anyway, I cannot stand liars, no offense intended to anyone. :)
They completely loose my trust in almost zero time, once my easily-believing mind realizes. When I point out the illogicalness of their statements, it goes on and on and they get flustered, and finally I realize, "oh it was a lie."
I believe people automatically once I trust them and ignore people or sources of information ever disseminating false information, such as commercials.
Same with me man !!! Thank you for reading
interesting! What is really sad is when one lies so much and so long that they themselves do not know what the truth is anymore.
Exactly!!!!. We just become unconscious to lying.
It is sad!! Those people have a bad habit to break.
Yep!!!!
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yes a good example right now being Killary Clinton !! see what these years of malice and lies have done to her health. Everything even not visible has consequences !!
OH my gosh! SO true XDD
Sometimes it's hard not to tell white lies. But when you lie once, you need to cover it up with a bigger lie. Where does it end then. They say honesty is the best policy but it's easier said than done.
I agree! Honesty is the best policy, But sometimes I think lying can happen automatically.
Great post...... @kaylinart
Thank you! This one was all thanks to @funnyman !
Thank you @kaylinart. you are a good person :)
no Problem :)
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Liars are everywhere and for us who would prefer to live in Truth they are the enemy!! But yes i have been known to lie too, but generally to not hurt others i love with a truth !! its a complicated affair truth !! Love this post !! upvoted !!
Thank you for reading @gomeravibz. I think Lying for a good cause is acceptable.
yes it called a " white lie " i believe if indeed we can give a colour to words ?? ; - )
Yes, Colours are good. It make them more creative
Thank you ! It's amazing how everyone lies sometimes!
yes but best to avoid this phenomena as i think to lie can generate difficulties of guilt in the heart and this may not be immediately visible to anyone but if compiled and added to by further abuse of this get out easy card, well then you become a serial liar with all the negative health implications that can bring !!
I totally agree with you. Thanks @gomeravibz
LOL!!!