We have many different ideas and opinions about a perfect partner because we have different ethnics and cultures in different countries, some people like a slim one while others like a big ones, other like white ones while others like tan ones.
I live here in the Philippines and of course, we have different ethnics or point of views about a perfect partner. Well, for me, I like to have a perfect partner that is lovable, attractive, humorous, very affectionate, and other aspects of becoming a not just a partner in life but all in all like a best friend, a mother, a father, and such.
We know that there only a few to no people that is perfect because everyone has their own flaws of their personality on becoming a partner. Even if we have an opinion or idea about becoming a perfect partner but the thought is we, as a person, has also bad side of our characteristics, it may be bad for others and good for some.
My partner told me about a message that having a relationship is not about happiness all the time, well, yeah, I agree with my partner's message that not all the time that we will be happy because there were times that we get angry with each other, we have some misunderstandings, and maybe got jealous of someone we knew.
For that relationship, there will be hardships between two partners but even if there were hardships, we just need to embrace it and accept these hardships as this is a part of having a partner in life.
I was glad to have this vision from my partner that not all the time is a happy time for us, well, I conclude that since I had a relationship before and it's not a smooth sailing one. So, yeah, just be together with your partner even if there were lows for them because that's the time that they needed you in the most unexpected ways.
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