For me with my own life it will not work to see any help from others, and I myself feel uncomfortable and feel lonely, and it will not be possible that love can come by itself, still many say that love can come by itself.
And many judgments of the people we ask if it is more comfortable and if the matter of love that can come by itself, still there is a certain time we must need a friend and not mungkit us always with self.
There is no contradiction.
You can be with many loving people, have wonderful relstiondhips, but ultimately, the greatest love you will know, will come only after you will have found love from within.
Thanks for your honesty, my dear friend 👍