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RE: "The spark has gone. Since I gained weight my boyfriend doesn't want to sleep with me. How can we solve our relationship problems?"

in #advice8 years ago

@nomad-magus ...the post reflects the overall human behaviour wheather it be a postitive or negative.....After reading from top to bottom ,firstly ,i am not able to understand why some people are this much depressed of weight gain,it is just natural thing and is not considerd any physical deformation...weight gain and weight loss is a part of ones life at different stages of life there should not be any problem in that.
As far as above case is considerd,..if you love your partner truely,from the heart,then the things like weight gain ,weight loss, etc won't matter AT ALL..otherwise you are loving your partner not by heart & soul but you are in love with his/her body..these things ultimately leads to destruction because if a relationship is based on such things then there is no future in that case.
Secondly, if the person who gains weight has no problem with it,then why should it bother her boyfriend?? Does he love her body??what if his girlfriend won't loose her weight?? So is this the end??? If yes then the word love is a MISNOMER.....thumbs down for her boyfriend..
..@nomad-magus u being an expert and intellectual , i have seen those relationships where a girl is attacked by acid due to which her face completely deformed..what next???? Yes, her boyfriend still accepted her and both are living a happy life..isn't that a big inspiration for this case????

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👍The body's image is a big issue in the more western world. Apart from that, it has become a health issue.
In this post, I am making one step further favoring the notion that spirit governs matter. When people are battled with weight issues or any physical issue for that matter, they feel the power is outside of them, when in real, it's inside. As Always.
Our relationship with our bodies is a touchy and sensitive subject for many, and by our discussions here, we bring much light to it.
Thanks for your sharings.

Yeah @nomad-magus ...thankyou for your reply.. no doubt weight gain is one of the most concerning health issue.. but leaving health issue aside,the boy is not ready to sleep with her due to weight gain..i cant see any "love"like stuff in their case.