It starts at home. Violent authoritarianism is learned at home, and it frames the world in terms of the might makes right philosophy. From there, schools teach civic virtue as obeying the state and being a law-abiding citizen rather than doing what is right.
That Golden Rule about treating others how you would want to be treated? Apparently that only qualifies for toddlers who don't understand it. The government is certainly exempt in the minds of the brainwashed masses.