Sorry but our frame of reference are so far removed that I don't think we can have a productive conversation.
It's not meant as an offence to you , it's just that our realities and lived experiences do not allow us to exchange ideas at a wavelength where it is has a possibility of being anything meaningful.
Reality is the same for both of us. I only hope my questions and analysis eventually encourage you to re-examine your perception of it.
Apparently it is not :)
I appreciate your passion about the subject.