There is a fine line between getting angry and being offended. Getting angry is something that is momentary, it is not planned. Anger passes for a while, it is not permanent. It takes longer to break, it is permanent. It will take a long time to overcome this. So there is a big difference between being angry and being offended. Being broken is a worse action. however, the damage to be done by being angry is more unconscious. it is instant.