It's all in the approach. You're coming at this from your angle.
If you want to reach people, think outside the box, pretend you are them, and wonder how they would perceive you with their way of thinking that got them to this point.
They aren't ready for it.
It's almost like: How would you speak to a 5 year old when they're not in the right mindset? Berate them? Flood them with information? Or speak to them slowly, and use examples in a way that even a 5 year old could say "yes daddy. I see your point. can I go out and play nicer now?"
nah - I don't need advice. I don't believe in the "pearls before swine" thing. I speak the truth as I see it and they get it on the spiritual level or they don't - it's none of my business. I think the "pearls before swine" thing is what got the knowledge occulted in the first place - so no. I speak to them as adults and they hear or they don't. That's between them and God.