Bullying Has Gone Too Far: When Students’ Safety Becomes a Daily Fear

in #aseanhive5 days ago

In recent weeks, Malaysia has witnessed a string of disturbing incidents that have shaken our sense of safety — particularly in Bandar Utama. A young girl was stabbed to death, and another secondary school student was reportedly raped in her hostel. These heartbreaking events are no longer “rare” — they’re symptoms of a growing crisis we can no longer ignore.

Bullying, once seen as “kids just being kids,” has turned violent and life-threatening. Every time one case hasn’t even settled, another emerges. The pattern is clear — our youth are not just being hurt emotionally, but are in real physical danger.

As a reality-based self-defense coach, I’ve seen firsthand how most students are unprepared when real danger strikes. They may know how to talk about “mental health” or “anti-bullying” in theory — but very few know what to do when a situation turns physical, when fear freezes them, or when no one else is there to help.

That’s why starting next week, our self-defense team will be visiting schools in Bandar Utama to conduct Anti-Bullying and Personal Safety Awareness Sessions. Our goal is not to promote violence, but to:

Educate students on how to identify threats and early warning signs.

Empower them with basic, realistic self-defense moves that anyone can use in real life.

Encourage a culture of respect, courage, and standing up — not with fists, but with awareness and action.

We want students to know that self-defense is not fighting back — it’s staying safe. We want parents and teachers to know that education without safety is incomplete.

One case is already too many. We cannot afford to wait for another tragedy before taking action.

To schools, parents, and communities in Bandar Utama — if you share our concern, we invite you to collaborate with us. Let’s build a safer environment together, where students are not only educated but also aware, alert, and able to protect themselves.