5 powerful ways to live without regrets

in #b7 years ago

Every time I go to the street, I can not see some people coming back or going to work, students who go to high school or school and who show their sadness and disgust on their face, but also a feeling negative. Imbued with too many tasks or problems that grind them inside, people seem to have forgotten to smile and look up to the other people and to the environment in which they live. With your shoulders left and staring down and seemingly admiring your shoes, too many people are sad and distracted and have negative feelings when they think of their lives. When I enter into dialogue with some of them, I listen to the life story with interest, and they often tell me that they have lost hope that they will have a better future, that the world will be different and that they are in their own right they will feel good. Too many live their lives burdened by tomorrow's care, overcrowded and dedicated in excess to others, and among the many tasks they have to deal with, they hide within themselves a myriad of regrets, regretted that they have not yet gotten that courage by which to make their life more beautiful. Good moments and happiness seem to have been replaced by regrets, and this increasingly present situation makes them feel sad.
When they arrive at work, they feel obsessed not only for the way they have done, but for running through their thoughts, through so many regrets and discontents they have. Like no sleep is no longer a quality after a day when you feel overwhelmed and without inner power and you have the impression that your life does not manifest as you deserve to manifest. You always put your hope outdoors in salvatory chances from other people, but you forget that inside you is the power that can make you every day better, better and more energy. In each of us we find the secret of happiness and all those factors that can help us have better days, be optimistic and have the power, motivation and confidence to fight for what we want.
The mistake of men is that they are constantly seeking that these resources found inside of them are looking for material things, other people, other places, and they are always in a continuous race, a wheel of the rat in which it still flows and, unfortunately, the years pass, opportunities may never return and until then everything seems a monotony.
You've always seen that when we ask people what they do, they answer "Okay," but how many of them are really doing well?
How much have we not been accustomed to when we are asked to answer so, and how do we know that things are not "okay" in reality?
We were accustomed to believing that this is life, that you need a lot of things to be happy, that you need certain relationships so that life is better and too many think it is impossible to achieve happiness.
Well, everything starts from the inside, and each of us can rewrite the story of our age.
We can now take into consideration a new road that we are going to go, a road we really wake up to and realize that everything we've been looking for so long outside ourselves already has in ourselves.
Then begins the self-knowledge process, when you let yourself search inside of what you've been looking for while running out and discovering how rich you are while all of you have shown the opposit
There's an incredible breakthrough that really has the power to change your life, but you'll especially feel the pressure and weight so pressing you get off your shoulders and makes you feel like you've finally got home because now you found out where you need to look to bring about solving, reconciliation, healing and happiness.
All the roads so heavy and long and sometimes even tormented have disappeared because you finally find that the solutions are within you, that happiness hides within you and more, you have the power to completely change the course of life.
I did not write this article to give you hope nor to make you believe in illusions or things that will never happen because that's not my role.
I'm here to grab your hand, to help you wake up and go on a new road, a road that will open doors to you where there were only walls.
And why do people suffer, why do they feel sad and disgust each day?
One of the main causes is that they do not allow themselves to be what they are
They are caught in the same struggle as to make others like, to fulfill their tasks, expectations of too much love, of respect or fear, or because they have been told that they must "and things seem to go well until they a day when you realize that you gather in your life a lot of regrets, frustrations and dissatisfactions and somehow feel that your life is in a second place while you are living robotic doing things for those near you.
It appears instead of happiness happiness, instead of feeling pleasure in each activity feel frustration and some kind of torment and you have no optimistic thoughts regarding your future.
You feel like regrets instead of pleasant moments, and because too many people feel and live this, I thought that through today's article I will come to your aid and offer you 5 powerful ways to live life without regrets.

  1. Consider who you really are
    In a world in which most teach you to comply with the rules imposed by society, I come and tell you that being a sheep of the crowd today does not make any difference to you anymore.
    I know it may sound a bit bitter, but it's true because as long as you copy a pattern imposed by others, you do nothing but to cast your own authenticity, your own glow.
    Each of us is unique and we have a lot of qualities that can help us provide value in the world we live in.
    Some are made to be useful to others, while others may be concerned about the exact sciences and deepen in their subject matter to reach a certain level of understanding The society in which we live does not at all promote the individuality in its purest form in the sense of helping each individual to discover their way, to get out the best of it, to know and to develop their passions and then to serve the world with them.
    Society is confronted with something other than stealing your power by promoting the idea of staying passive at everything that happens, of conforming to the way everyone does, but that has no happy future.
    Everyone has to follow certain patterns that everyone follows and say that they have behaviors that society accepts to otherwise be judged and even excluded from a particular group.
    The good news is that whenever you break this vicious circle in which we grew up and where others want so much to stay because today our awakening begins and our mission that individuals develop and personality is growing.
    You can not fall into the same mistakes, in the same trap where everybody feels because you will become like the others and I do not think that's what you want
    Do not compromise your value or ignore what is important to you for fear of being judged by others.
    Those who deserve your attention will be with you and will appreciate how they respect and take into account what is important to you if you are honest and if you follow your dreams with interest even if it is not in line with what your society tells you or some intentional evil voices.
    Being honest with you and others is an excellent way to strengthen the most important relationships, but also to increase your confidence.
    Maybe this will not happen in the short term, but in the long run you will have to win.

In addition, if you follow your values and principles without any exaggeration, you become a leader, and leadership is one that many can aspire to.

  1. Give up the masks
    Sometimes life can be compared to a huge scene where people have a role to play.
    There are plenty of ointments that people display for various reasons either to be accepted by others, either because they feel safe or because they can be judged and banished by the people if they are out to the true face.
    Too many people who are afraid to display themselves authentic as they are with many qualities and flaws.
    Too many hide their own feelings because they have the impression that they will be really happy or think that if they are natural they will be vulnerable to suffering.
    From my point of view, the most beautiful person is the one who is natural, who has nothing to hide, expressing his feelings publicly without fear and who always knows what his dreams are and what is important to him.
    Being actors on the stage of life is simple, but unfortunately it will not bring us happiness, but will remove us from our true being.
    Being able to look exactly the way you are in a world where most people hide under all sorts of masks is an admirable quality and I recommend you to do that. Do not be afraid to be natural, laugh when you feel it and cry when you feel it, to say what you like and what not. It always shows that you know what's most important to you and be just the way you are. If you were born to run to the highest heights of success, why do you prefer to stand? 3. Forgive even when you have been deeply injured It often happens to be injured by others and to accumulate within us a lot of thoughts and negative emotions, but also strong links to the people who have hurt us. By refusing to forgive a certain person, you do nothing but stay connected with that situation and keep all those negative feelings and emotions, but also let the past manifest itself in the present moment. Many of us are wearing grudge against others and the things people have done wrong with us, but as long as you keep all these feelings and negative emotions you only do to die inside, let them rot in you emotions that affect your pe It's like leaving a broken marble in the same box with other good apples and even if apple does not seem to pose a threat to the other apples, in fact it's nothing but to spoil them in a short while.
    The lack of forgiveness can be compared to a broken marriage that, when it is not removed and cleansed by forgiveness and healing, does nothing else but to spoil other apples and other resources inside you.
    Forgiveness is a great proof of love and I know some people have taught you to punish the one who has wronged you, but this is not your duty.
    Everybody throws into our universe our deeds, things that go back like a boomerang and that either help us or breaks us down by the speed and weight they are turning to.
    The law is simple and even if you believe in it or not, it always works the same way.
    You're doing a good thing to a man, you're emitting a good into the universe that's going back to you.
    So with the evil that you do, he has the same path whether you want it or not!
    ace and inner peace.
    It's like leaving a broken marble in the same box with other good apples and even if apple does not seem to pose a threat to the other apples, in fact it's nothing but to spoil them in a short while.
    The lack of forgiveness can be compared to a broken marriage that, when it is not removed and cleansed by forgiveness and healing, does nothing else but to spoil other apples and other resources inside you.
    Forgiveness is a great proof of love and I know some people have taught you to punish the one who has wronged you, but this is not your duty.
    Everybody throws into our universe our deeds, things that go back like a boomerang and that either help us or breaks us down by the speed and weight they are turning to.
    The law is simple and even if you believe in it or not, it always works the same way.
    You're doing a good thing to a man, you're emitting a good into the universe that's going back to you.
    So with the evil that you do, he has the same path whether you want it or not!

  2. Accept that you still have a lot to learn
    In a world in which the idea of perfectionism and the perfection of perfection is promoted, it is good to think and see if perfection can ever be attained.
    I would like to give you an example of people whose life is perfect, the results of which are perfect, and you would like to think well how many people you are looking for to be truly perfect and to make all things as perfect.
    Well, I do not think you will find it because there is no man on this world that is perfect and if man does not exist, his actions can not be as perfect.
    They are extraordinary results, but they are not perfect.
    A big obstacle to people trying to try something new is the fear of being judged by others and the fear of failure, which inspires people the misgivings that they will do ... perfect things.
    As we have said above, we humans are imperfect, but this is not a defect, but a great advantage because we can in our imperfection realize remarkable things that bring a great benefit to both the new and the society in which we live.
    We are afraid to try something new and because we are afraid that others will not consider us stupid, but we forget that as long as we do not break our personal limits doing something over the things we know for sure we can do, we can not grow and how to evolve.
    Leaving important opportunities and leaving the fear of stopping, we are putting our own obstacles to our evolution.

Life is a continuous school and we have the duty to learn from every experience, to keep in mind our past and to go forward confident in every opportunity that can be a launch pad for a much better future. 5. Listen to your soul Perhaps you have heard the expression of listening to your soul, letting your intuition wear you, and helping you choose the most important things in life. In each of us there is a strong voice, a voice of our soul that bears the name of intuition. This voice is sometimes stopped by the "consciousness" of the conscious mind, by the voices of society, and many times people do not hear it and act in a mechanical way. Intuition is to see with your soul, to listen to the purest voice you can hear, to take into account what is important to you and to follow your path to happiness. People often accumulate more and more regrets, and because of their fear they are shaking their own potential, and so willingly give up the responsibility of those around them and give them their own power. From here and until it has a meaningless life, a sad and unhappy life is no more than a step, a step most of them do.happiness-pain-prescription-wealth.jpg

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