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They aren't the only one not running the fork. Perhaps if you voted for more witnesses, and other users did the same, the soft fork wouldn't even be active.

I'm not telling you what to do with your stake. It's yours.
Decisions as well.

Maybe you should be telling others to use their stake to participate in the consensus voting. Maybe if you did that you would have witnesses that are more aligned with your views in the top. Maybe.