Cannot See Another Way

in #blog5 days ago

And you could kind of improvise. And I find that I mean, so many people that want to live on just what's written in stone, it's like, you know, it's got to be this way. And it's like, they cannot see another way.

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And then you end up getting into an argument where the attitude is, but you're not listening. This is the way it is. And I'm going, I do listen.

I know that's the way it seems to be. But here is another way. Let's look at that way.

And then when you do that, you get this thing like, where they get like, oh, now you're trying to convince me your way. No, I'm not. I'm just allowing you to see another way.

Maybe you might sit back and think about it and say, you know what, that makes sense. How many times you thought something did not make sense at the time. And then later on, you said, oh, now I see why she said that.

So when you were talking about grass, Tim, I thought when people say the grass is not greener on the other side. And that's why. Because you the person, not realizing that you are in your season and you think that the grass is greener on the other side, you go over there and you find out, no, it's not greener on this side either, because it's still you, right? So learn how to deal with that time.

And Tim has been helping me a lot in terms of my delivery. And I love this space. I will come here everywhere, no matter where I am.

I'll be listening to Tim and go back and listen, because there is so much reward here. And I encourage all of us to share this space with others, because the more we start thinking like this, the better we will become. And we could think clearer of how it's going on.