I can not easily say 'no' to anyone. Just think, if he gets hurt! Again ...

in #blog6 years ago


jpgJaya and Lovely study together, they have one. Jaya is quietly quiet. On the other hand, Lovely is very durant, many of her friends prefer to chat outside. There is not much mind in her studies. Two of the two types of nature, friendships were created at one time. But Lewali's wrongdoing abdarara often suffice a lot of trouble in Joya Like Joy has classes, she will go to class and Lovely goes shopping, she wants to take Joy along with Lovely. Understanding Jaya is important in her class. But whoever hears, it takes him somehow to forcefully. It was again seen that all the money was spent on shopping. Then he is spending money on the money from Jaya ... Jaya can not say anything. He falls in the forefront how the next days will go. Jaya's family is also very good, but she does not waste any time. And parents do not take any extra money needed to tell the mother. On the other hand, Lovely is the only exception. The only way to get rid of this lavish hassle is to say, 'no' by asking for something that he does not like. Many people like family members, colleagues, who like hesitation, are hesitant to say 'no', lest they think that their relationship with them will get worse, because of their simplicity. If your condition is like jaay. But do not know 'no' with modesty. The person who is not saying this, will also know about your extraordinary. Tell him, I really liked it, if you could come to your needs, but I still had some limitations in my life. Because I can not really do anything, but I am ashamed to be unable to do this. Increasing confidence is also important in this regard. It is sometimes necessary to say 'no' right in the right direction, especially when someone is giving you many benefits from fooling you day after day. Relationships are not such a one-sided. Similarly, the issue of giving is not just about one-sided. You can give something to your loved ones But if he is able to see that he is taking only from you, then you should understand that he is not the right person ... whether he is a relative, friend or a colleague. One more thing, if you realize that someone is taking advantage of your simplicity, then you can leave him alone. The car/i67.tinypic.com/e7xi7t.jpg

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