Have The Ability To

This is someone that I need to be aware of. I need to be careful what I say to this person. And I let them be who they are.

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But I know who they are and how I need to deal with them. So that's just who you are, self-therapist. And that's all. I consider that almost be a gift to be able to do that, to not feel the need or the urge to react and have the ability to respond strategically to people without verbally lashing them or slashing them.

Because sometimes we can. And what I've learned about myself is in those moments, God doesn't even give me. He doesn't give me the opportunity because I can be quick with it at times.

And it happens more so in fun moments. We're having conversations with friends and they'll make a comment. And then I just something just rolls off my tongue.

And I sit there and I'm just observing to see if they heard what I said. And, you know, maybe a couple of sentences later, a few moments later, wait a minute, wait a minute. Would you just say and then they'll laugh because they finally figured out what I did and what I said.

But in the moments where it's critical or moments where it could be conflict, my brain goes blank. It's like as if I don't even get the opportunity. It's like you aren't going to even have a chance.

I'm just going to totally wipe your brain because I don't want you to be in a position where you. Destroy your character because you're responding to someone the wrong way. So it's I consider it a gift sales therapist.

Miss Lucky, go ahead. Thank you, Tim. This is so good.

So many so many things are going through my head. But one thing I want to say is that I was watching an interview. This guy was interviewing T.J. It's one of my favorite pastors.