Yes- Neutrally Observe.
I catch a lot of grief from people in groups because they assume my position. If only they could see that what they see is a reflection of themselves. For example- the article I shared talking about Turkish Forces bombing the ancient temple has riled up many people in an ancient group I help admin. Some assumed I was defending the Kurds (smh- wtf). Of course others blamed the gov't that claims to represent me. I woke up this morning to a message asking me why so much hate? And there was none in the article or in any of my comments. I explained there was no hate- It was a Telegraph article and an Ancient Architects video (no hate there either). Once he read my reply, he understood and his whole attitude toward me changed.
People really love to label.
It's really nice to see you explaining neutral observation here.
Also- Thank you to this man for reading me these books so that I could be exposed, learn and grow.
https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOdt4ugDsU0R6Qis6lfW2Ew/search?query=the+way+of+mastery
Thank you for sharing @sunsquall and the links. Exactly right about reflection and also how we reflect one another sometimes. I tell someone very close to me that doesn't like to be lied to, how funny it is that they lie over the smallest of things. lol! She is triggered really more for own self realization. She will get it when she is ready.