You and your friends are right. Money is important, health is important, leisure is important, being friends is important, breathing is important. I have full understanding, I also often have no time for friends and relatives. But that you have to suffer now to be able to enjoy later, I think you are wrong. You should not suffer. If you get sick, you may not be able much to enjoy your life later.
It's all about finding the balance in life. I think you're right, I have to take it easy. Thanks for passing by, @suntree!