And it's almost like someone traveling to a foreign country. You go to a foreign country and you expect them to live their life the way that you live back home. Why are you there? If you want to live your same life, stay at home.
SourceBut you go and embrace what they do and experience their culture to see how life could potentially be where you are. It's about growing. And I love that you said, you know, validate a person's emotional position and to ask permission.
And I think those are those are excellent points. And by validating someone's emotional state where you're either asking or reflecting to them that it sounds like you may be a little upset about that. And if one, it shows them that you're listening and then two, it opens the door for clarification so that they can say, well, no, I don't really feel like that.
This is what I really feel. And now you can both be on the same page moving forward without confusion and then asking permission. Some people don't want feedback.
Some people are speaking because that's how they process their feelings. They talk about it and they don't need you to give them 25 solutions. So ask.
I love that. I ask, would you like some feedback or do you want me to just listen? And they'll tell you, especially if they're in a state where their hearts are heavy and they just need to express themselves. They'll say, no, I just I just need to talk it out.
I just I just needed someone to listen and they don't need the solution. So ask permission in whatever the situation is. And you will find that that's going to open the door for clarity and people will be a lot more receptive when you share this amazing wisdom that you're going to share with them when they give you permission and you asking permission doesn't make you any less of a person.
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