o not be offended that person understands that he is doing this manipulation puts us all the time in this state of confusion because we would be happy to react but we have already been told that you can not react this all. You just do not take offense and hit us that is we will naturally experience the pain we will experience the stress we will test a sense of resentment therefore the more we struggle with a natural sense of resentment the more we brought to forgiveness, it's the forced that the worse we feel. Unfortunately, the resentment does not go anywhere and it just goes into the Subconscious, that is, we are in every way a hundred aemsya prove to myself that we did not hurt that we even do not feel when we hit a neighbor boy a shovel on the head, but this is not how we experienced the pain we experienced some emotional discomfort we experienced a powerful sense of dissonance becaus