:) Yes, there is a lot of Phill in me too, but I have tried the sexy priestess attack a couple of times and it takes a lot of tack to say: no, thank you. Women are, in general, not used to being rejected and they are much more vulnerable when they do take the initiative. All the can-I-buy-you-a-drink-fellas are used to being rejected 20 times per night :) and seldom with anything that resembles tack.
I have had the idea for this scene for a long time and it is actually interesting that when I finally get to it it is in the middle of the £metoo drama.