REASONS FOR CONFLICT IN THE CHURCH
Hatred stirs up strife, but love covers all sins(Prov.10:12)NKJV
BACKGROUND
To deny the existence of conflict in the church of God is like saying every hour of the day is light without darkness. Conflicts occur whenever people interact and work together. It is a dangerous fallacy to think that conflicts do not occur in churches. The results revealed that all was not well in the church.
This lesson opens our eyes to the inevitability of conflicts in the church and how this could be approached in biblical ways.
TRUE KNOWLEDGE ABOUT THE CHURCH (MATT. 16:16-19;JAMES 4:1-3)
Some view the church as a place of worship where perfection is expected from her members. Conflict which serves as Hazard that catches people in the web outside is considered as alien. Some think the church should be made up of people that have conquered obstacles and vices which are common outside the church. Rationally, the church consists of people and not Angels.
This group of people are from different backgrounds ,nations, races, temperament, views, etc. They were brought to be transformed from their past evil ways to decent life in Christ . They were admitted into church at different times and the rate of assimilation differs.
Suffice then to say that the church is made up of both mature and immature people with different agenda. Admittance to the church is open to everyone.
Thinking that there won't be conflict is an illusion.
If the existence of conflict in the cannot be denied, then the onus rests on us to examine reasons for it's existence with a view to minimizing the cause and providing remedy for the existing ones as God gives us the enablement.
The church is an Avenue through which conflict can be resolved. Also, members of the church should ask for God's help to find ways out of conflicts. No matter the happenings in the church, Jesus has a wonderful love for her. He promised to build His church and that the gates of hell will not prevail over it.
CAUSES OF CONFLICT IN THE CHURCH(ACTS 15:36-40;PROV.10:12)
- The reasons why there is conflict in the church vary. Principally, search for pleasure "hedonism " which leads to hostility(James 4:1-6) is responsible for most conflicts.
- Misunderstanding that ensues as a result of poor communication (Joshua 22:10-34)
- Views and priority placed on goals, gifts, callings, interest, can cause conflicts. Church members have talents or interests that vary from one to the others.
- Competing over limited resources such as valuable materials(Gen. 13:1-12)
- It could also be as a result of sin, a bad habit and use of foul language. (James 4:1-2)
6.The intentions of some to exert self -ego, dominance on others. This is done through evil urge to prove that they are better, stronger, richer and more useful than others.
7.Lack of true and genuine love for each other. If we apply the golden rule, then there will be No problem.
ANTIDOTE TO CONFLICT IN THE CHURCH (1cor 10:31-11:1)
Conflict is not generally bad since God created us differently or uniquely. As human beings, we will always have opinions, desires and positions that differ on issues about life. Many of these are not necessarily right or wrong. It is as a result of how God endowed us differently. We must learn to work with people who see things differently. We must give heed to our guiding principles of doing things.
We must see conflicts as a means and opportunity to demonstrate the love of God in our lives and not as occasion to impose our will on others. We must operate consistently in line with what our spiritual fathers have rules on. Acting against their opinion as led by the Holy Spirit is displaying the spirit of disobedience.
Furthermore, we must glorify God during conflict. The best way to do this is to depend on his grace, bringing into our remembrance the unmerited favor, undeserved love,mercy,forgiveness strength and wisdom which God gave us through the Lord Jesus Christ. Our Lord Jesus Christ resolved the conflict of sin by putting to death our pride and self centeredness. Paul enjoins us to become living sacrifices and to give up our pride (Rom. 12:1). This way we can be transformed by the renewing of our minds. Jesus challenged us to take up our cross and follow him by dying daily to self (Matt. 10:38).We must therefore live by faith in the Son of God, who loved us.And gave himself for us (Gal. 2:20).
CONCLUSION
We should realize that conflict originated from us as a result of self pleasure, 'Hedonism '.If we should live to please others by adapting to the golden rule, most of the conflicts in our midst today would be overcome.
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I have experienced this before. Well, not all of it, but some. Thanks for the lesson.
Conflicts in the church have really increased to an alarming rate. Even pastors go to the extent of quarrelling and fighting with one another just because of one selfish reason or the other. This is so shameful.
With all these conflicts what message do we preach? How can we boldly proclaim the Gospel of Jesus Christ to the whole world? I pray that God will fill our hearts with love for one another and that we may be led by the Holy Spirit always.
But it should at all time be avoided
Conflict in the church has been right from the time of the church at Corinth and it always ends in divisions. This is why we have so many churchesnowadays because nobody wants to bow to another and this shouldn't be so. God help us to understand that the church is his and we are supposed to act like Christians.
But why would there be conflict in the church when they professed to reveren God?
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I'm confused here. I often read so many quotes that say "don't live to please others" but live to be happy. And here I read "live to please others as a golden rule", I'm confused.
Answers lies in the golden rule.
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I hate to argue about church or be in that conflict situation
Your antidote is superb
Conflict is part of life, its how we handle the resolution and aftermath that matters.