Ok guys and gals I'm going to put my counseling and psychology and MMFC to use here with an advice column! I will pool others in my field to answer your questions and give a few options in guidance. A woman's and a mans perceptive on the advice you seem in starting a new relationship or dealing with relationship problems. If you ask a question please give this post a full up-vote and when you get your answers from me then up-vote those too.
Who has the first question?
Wendy Coin :-)