I think I did have a few identified and book marked somewhere. Can share it with others
But as you rightly said this is a field moving really fast so some things become obsolete very quickly. Also I'm really reluctant to recommend books I have not read. As you pointed out its not that easy :)
I think a good list will be both technical and non-technical, so will be quite some time before I read enough to put out a convincing list.
I strong believe, the only way to emerge winner in this space is by acquiring knowledge about these new technologies rather than mere trading or following telegram/Discord channels and placing speculative bets on unknown coins. Not that making money hurts or is wrong, you might make a bit but will not hold on to it without knowledge