I found this conversation riveting!

in #dating6 years ago (edited)

I lived in Colombia for nearly 3 years and dated those spicy latina women and I can tell you that David the electrician here is pretty damn naive...  

Online dating in latin America is tantamount to sticking your dick in a rusty old blender and hitting Blend. Her having an online dating profile is a huge red flag and really should be a deal breaker for a serious relationship. Those dating websites are just a cesspit of prostitution, single motherhood, STDs and booze fueled hookup culture 

If they met on an online dating website that means she's still on the dating website talking to OTHER men to see if there's a better option than this guy. Hypergamy don't stop! 

It's NOT SMART to commit to a woman that you've never met in person. Equally foolish to try to judge someone's core values and virtues over a Skype connection. 

All latinas CLAIM to value family highly, but consistently they produce and reproduce the MOST fucked up, k-selected, dysfunctional, child abusing, pathetic excuse for family. 

Latinas want an hombre con sabor a "man with flavor" who has some swagger, confidence and personality. David's gringo provider game will bore her to death in about 10 months. 

 BUT Stefan also fails to understand a few things... 

The dating marketplace in the US is an utter hellscape for average-Joe-sixpack guys like this. Stefan's suggestion to just meet a nice American girl is laughable. His chances of meeting a decent American girl to settle down with are nil to zip. 

I haven't lived in the US for a while but nearly every American girl I meet traveling is either/both brainwashed by retarded leftist-feminist dogma and/or physically unattractive. 

Not every man is going to learn game or struggle through years of arduous personal development (or become an Youtube/internet celebrity) to raise their sexual market value to compete with Dan Bilzerian. 

It's true that a lot of latina chicks hate latino guys. Yes, almost all of them cheat! This stereotype is dead on! 

The Venezuelana girl does have a few redeeming features. Latinas who speak English are almost always a cut above in intelligence and virtue. He didn't say whether or not she's a single mother, actually in Latin America it's hard to find an attractive young woman who isn't a single mother! If she's not then that's a good sign.

The bottom line is that this guy has NO hope in the US BUT he really should get his passport and go abroad. If he's willing to get over the sunk cost of the time he wasted Skype dating the Venezuelana with the madre loca he'll find a boundless talent pool of exotic, feminine foreign women with whom he can geo-arbitrage his sexual marketplace value and then can realize the affection, monogamy and intimacy with the virtuous woman that he yearns for.

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I'll agree with your article but do you know some relationships existing today started online and they are still strong till today.