Very pleased to hear about you and your wife and that you lead a stable relationship. It makes no sense, for example, to separate after these moments of hardship, adventure and an as yet unachieved goal.
I believe that if you are over forty and have a good man or woman at your side, you will hardly ever experience a separation in order not to lose these common memory of all your experiences. Of course, no guarantee, but a solid basis. So happy to read your expressions about that.
Once in a while a couple needs inspiration and to drag themselves out of a pessimistic mood, but that's normal, I suppose. In any way, I wish you success in finding a property.
Best wishes from Germany.
thanks so much and i was super happy to see you are still around.