I did some research on what women find sexy in men as it’s quite a fun topic to look into! In no particular order, here are the 10 I agree with. Men, let me know if you were aware of these things, and ladies, let me know if you agree!
Confidence
I talked about this topic in my video on how to have sex appeal; confidence is sexy! If you love yourself, we ladies will perk our ears up and want to know why. Having a clear, strong, powerful voice also shows this. So men, if you normally talk shyly or soft spoken, try to speak up more and act confident!Good Grooming Habits
Clear, clean skin is not only a sign of good health (which makes us ladies genetically want to breed with you!), but it also makes us want to kiss your smooth face. The same goes for having nice, soft hands and fingernails that we’ll want you to touch us with! Men, don’t let your nails get long and dirty or all chewed up; take care of those hands so that we’ll want them on us.Smell
Pheromones are a real thing; we can better sniff out our scent matches that we are attracted to if you are showered! Also, some cologne that goes well with your natural scent can work wonders!Be a Gentleman
Holding the door for us, waiting to eat until our food arrives at the same time as yours, letting us walk ahead of you into an elevator: these things will not go unnoticed! It makes us feel taken care of and special, and that makes you look extra sexy.Sense of Humor
If you can stimulate our brains by making us laugh, then we want to be around you and will enjoy your company more, and that is a very sexy thing!Stable
Being in a good place in life regarding your relationship with your family and friends, and having a set career path, are examples of you showing us that you’d make a good partner in life. Stability is sexy. It shows you are able to maintain successful relationships as well as ready to set down your roots (hopefully with us!).Happy Trail
Guys, if you lean back and stretch and “accidentally” let us see that little path of hairs towards you goodies, we will be intrigued!Strong and Veiny Forearms
Buff forearms with some veins showing look manly since it’s so different from how our arms look, so we’ll want to touch yours. It’ll make us think you can open any jar for us and be there to take care of our needs.Good Listener
Women need emotional love and if a man really hears us and pays attention, it’s hella’ sexy.Conversation
Tying into #9, it doesn’t matter what you look like if you cannot hold a fun conversation and make us want to spend time with you. Along these lines, it’s important to be emotionally present so that we can share and discuss anything with you and feel comfortable.
Check out my video for more details on all of the above and let me know your thoughts!
My video is at DLive
For sure! Life is way more fun with a partner who inspires and supports you to be your best self.
I agree with all of them, especially confidence and sense of humor. Another thing you can add (free of charge ;)) is "fun to be around". That may fall under sense of humor, but, in general, people just wanna have fun.
I'm so glad you agree, and I agree with you! Being in general fun to be around is indeed similar to being funny, but more. :D
Glad we're on the same page ;)
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