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You know, this is such a conundrum. My first husband and I lived together and then divorced. The Husband and I lived together and married 17 years ago this year. I do think that living together is a good idea, but having said I would never marry again, there is much to recommend it. From a cultural point of view and, in this country, from a legal perspective. No tax issues in this country. So from that perspective, I can't make a single choice for your vote. I can just complicate it for you, @rebeccabe......

I really enjoy reading other people's insights. You are right it all depends.

thank you...love you guys!