Ecotrain Question of the week: Is it better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all

This week question asked by @eco-alex is interesting. Here is the link for his post

https://steemit.com/ecotrain/@eco-alex/is-it-better-to-have-loved-and-lost-than-never-to-have-loved-at-all-ecotrain-question-of-the-week

Is it better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all?

Is there any other option like never to have loved? Love is indispensable. It is something one shouldn’t miss, no matter what the outcome is. We never plan to fall in love. It just happens.

Love changes with people and time. Different people will give different versions in different conditions or situations.. The way you love can change, the way you express can change, the way you feel can change. Love changes but it never becomes outdated. Basically you like it or not you can’t escape it.

Before you love someone and be lost, I would say it is the best to love yourself first. Fall in love with yourself and you will find yourself forever. You wouldn’t feel lost. And you will be ready to fall in love again and again.

But it is vital we don’t love ourself to the extent that it makes us selfish. Leave some room to love others too.
Loving someone and being loved by someone is a beautiful feeling! It won’t necessarily happen both ways. Sometimes it is one way and which one is better is another topic of discussion.

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Love can be for anybody be it parent- kid love , sibling love, friends love, material love, love for nature/ animals.

One should remember that with love, comes responsibility! When you are loved by someone you have a responsibility to not to hurt him/her. The moment you hurt, you are giving a lesson to that person not to love anyone!

Love brings expectations! When your expectations are not fulfilled, you feel bitter towards the person you love the most!

Love brings positivity/ negativity! Getting true love makes you a positive and better person and if you don’t get true love, you loose trust and faith. It is a human tendency to return what you get. So when you get love you want to return that same to others!
Falling in love is amazing. You just have to be Selfless and understanding, ready to give unconditional love and respect. That’s it. This is basic requirement to love and being loved. We can do this much. It is worth a try.

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Love gives strength, so when it so strongly exists why not try it!