To praise is to positively highlight an attitude, an action through different means. The word and the affective expression are the main ones: hugs, gestures, kisses and other physical manifestations of love accompanied by the words of encouragement are the most effective and of the upbringing and of the day to day a more healthy and enjoyable environment. People have to be praised, their achievements celebrated, their progress encouraged.
The goal of praising is to increase desirable behaviors.
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This generates around children and adults a pleasant and favorable climate for learning on the one hand, and even more, security and self-confidence, so important for current and future life.
Meanwhile, the concept that is opposed is that of criticism. A criticism consisting of the reproach or the questioning of the qualities and virtues that something presents. Then, when someone or someone loves us, we like them, we praise them, and on the contrary, when something disgusts us and does not have our preference at all, we tend to criticize it. For its part, the constant test always other consequences:
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- Low self-esteem - Low self-confidence
- Bad relationship with learning, error and knowledge
- Search for good results, without evaluation of the process
- Difficulties in their social and affective relationships
Characteristics of a positive compliment.
Praise should be moderate, excessive praise should be avoided.
-The praise must be sincere: Authentic praises the person for something that can be specific. - The moment: For the message to be more efficient, it is convenient to give the praise as soon as possible to the action that is being reinforced. Sometimes it will be interesting to do it in front of other people, in other things in a private space.
Benefits of praise
A.-Boost your performance. Receive a compliment or fulfill performance improvement in a similar way that you receive a cash reward.
B. - Increase happiness. It also increases the willingness at work.
C.- They promote kindness between two people.
D.- You acquire social skills. The compliments are one of the best tools to acquire social skills, because the answer to them is immediate.
E.- Transform the feelings. When a compliment is received, joy, happiness and tranquility increase.
In conclusion we can emphasize that it is of great importance to praise children and adults to improve the quality of life of all and that is why we must learn to give them, in order to express our true feelings and recognition towards our fellow human beings.
So if you are in a position where other people depend on you, try to use the praise to encourage the learning of new skills among them. You will notice how the work and student environment will be more relaxed and everyone will be more committed and pleased with work and study.
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ENCOURAGE TO GIVE PRAISES! YOU WILL MAKE HAPPY A LOT OF PEOPLE!