Say No To Random Billing .
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Good afternoon great people. I hope Tolani , Emeka or Aminat has not messaged you randomly to say Hi , ask how your family is doing and the third message is ' I need your help ' , ' I am hungry o ' , ' Come and do sub for me ' ' Babe , I'm broke ' .
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Before you rush to your internet banking app to do the usual. Ask yourself , what is the use of this individual to my life ? Is he/she a parasite ,a pest or truly someone that deserves help from me ?
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Many of us make the mistake of helping the wrong folks . You can help someone with 2k and it will go a longg way and then again, you can help someone with 50k and your money will go to thrash neither will your help be remembered.
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Nigerians have this ' let us help him/her' spend the money syndrome. That mindset is what lot of individuals have and that's why they keep tasking you and you don't even know it. It's a weakening something.
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Do you have friends that have never given you anything before ? Gifts - 0 , they cling to their stuff and they are always broke even when they are not broke ? . Well , I know you do. I have few too. Some that are even very close to me. It takes time to realize but those kind of friends are useless people. Very useless. Those are the kind of people you should not inform of your success , they don't deserve to share in it. Why am I saying these things ? I'm trying to prepare you for your wealthy years . The more you have , the more the random billing. Do not be sacred to say NO to anybody - no matter how close they are ! Discern if they are worth it or not. And some are not even appreciative of your effort because they believe you have more than enough to spare. Because someone knows your net worth is around 2-3 million. They ask you for help requesting for 50k , you squeeze out 30k for them but the ' Thank you ' you got was laced with an expression that screamed ' Really , this is alll I get? ' . Those kind of people are also equally useless. They don't know if the cash at hand you ve got is just 80k at that moment and the rest of your money is tied down
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They Dont think you have plans for your own money , all they wana do is take from you. It's almost as appalling as people who say because a church has 10 billion dollars , they should give 5 billion to charity or use it to build schools for poor kids. I'm sorry but that's a foolish mindset. Do you think 10 billion dollars just appeared in the church's account by magic ? You think it didn't take years to pile up? Well , that's not the point here. The point is Quit wasting your money on worthless people.
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I also noticed some guys have a hard time saying no to girls , especially the pretty ones or slayqueens. Smiling like a fool and granting their requests like the cunt slave that you are. Fam , girls that bill you for shit won't help your life. Half these girls are not even interested in your well being. They dont care what you're going through in life and to make it worse , there are about five more people she asked for the same thing she asked you. So don't be scared of being shamed by a girl because she thinks you're 'broke ' or you're 'stingy ' . Being manipulated by such things means your mind is still immature and could easily become a puppet.
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Spend your money on the right people , help the people that actually need it. Random billing will only keep pulling you back. I said so. Be wise today...
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