Life is like that, nothing is better than when you are in company or in a community where you have all the support of certain people. Being self-sufficient is splendid, you don't have to discuss that, but many people confuse that with being alone and isolating themselves a little. Being in a community means you have help at all times, or at least you should be.
By the way, how was your birthday? :)
Thanks for your comment dearie.
My birthday went great.