Trust issues...

in #esteem6 years ago (edited)

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Trust can be referred to a popular saying "Rome was not built in a day" just as Rome was not built in a day trust is not also built in a day.

Trust is not gotten on the platter of gold. It is built over time.

Trust most times is sequence of events or situations that allows an individual confers trust on a person or a system.

In simple terms when you do well repeatedly, people will begin to trust you.
When you begin to do, the reverse people will begin to lose trust.

Trust is powerful, it is so powerful.
In simple terms when you do well repeatedly, people will begin to trust you.

If you're trusted by people you're a very powerful person.

One of the very virtue people look out for when going through trust process is honesty.

If you're honest overtime not minding the situation or surrounding circumstance people will begin to trust you and your trust level increases.

However if you begin to lie to customers and people who beforehand trusted you, the same people will lose their trust on you.

How people loose trust:

People's dishonesty has a way of depleting trust, dishonesty has the potency to make and an individual lose trust completely.

When a company who were producing a particular product with great quality begins to lose trust it because they started to reduce the quality of their products.

For husbands and wife little things leads to trust lose by both partners, little things like hiding the phone password from your partner.

Receiving secret phone calls can be another way the husband and wives lose trust.

It is always better not to break trust, rather than mending broken trust.

Trust when broken takes time to rebuild, and mend. Every human never sees betrayal of trust as an awful experience.

So to avoid the process of trying mend broken trust, don't better break it.

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It sounds quite amazing with issues of trust. Let say i wanna do all these to earn everyone's trust, what should i do about the people who preach about "don't trust anyone". Should i accept that or i should forget them?

Forget them, we need someone to trust, may be just one.

Alright @prettyjules158. Thanks for sharing your opinion on this matter. Have a nice time

When we lose confidence in someone it is very difficult to recover it again, that is why we must take great care of the relationship.
In jobs sometimes people do not know how to say "no" and are filled with responsibilities and then can not comply and become irresponsible.
The best thing then is to be sincere from the beginning, because when we know that we can count on the other we always have a feeling of well-being and tranquility.
I wish you that your relationships are always based on trust.

Mine is, I tried hard to build it on trust.

The value of the word of trust is played on one particular occasion. Nobody has to believe in anyone. Every person is working on the basis of faith. And the friend can believe in one moment, but he must be such a friend. Thank you.

Trust is really fragile, it can take years to build and just a day to destroy. Its important we value the trust people put in us.

Yeah, thanks for ur comment.

My pleasure!

Trust like reputation takes time to build but can be destroyed overnight.

Humans by default don't trust so easily, it has to be earned and we must do all we can to maintain that level of trust.

Managing trust is like managing a brand, a little flaw can damage all that has been built over time

I for one have trust issues. I hardly trust but when I do I do it completely and if a person do something to break the trust I have in him or her then that trust can never be regain.

Trust is very fragile, once it is gone it is gone

You are right, once is gone is gone. Same for me.

Yeah exactly

Trust is extremely delicate, it can take a long time to construct and only multi day to demolish. Its critical we esteem the trust individuals put in us.

You are right frnd.