Hahaa Be bold, use the marker. How else will you revisit those thoughts and decisions in future years? Stories told become history, and history should never be erased for those are the building blocks of our mettle.
Rodney is doing great! He has come out of his ordeal with minimal troubles aside from the elbows. If you remember, drumming was his life and he is unable to drum in his accustomed manner. It breaks my heart to see, but he is resilient and is moving ahead with life and finding other passions in the meantime. We will revisit elbow surgery in the near future to see if that will release some mobility for him.
Big hugs to you and your family over this whole holiday season. We have so many reasons to be thankful, eh?? lol <3