Silent reader? But got upvote, right...? Haha, just kidding.
Thanks for "speaking up", and lovely to hear your comments. Well, not so sure about the different style of upbringing, but one thing's for sure,
If I do what I've always done, I'll get what I've always gotten.
So the trick is to attempt different things, and hope for that 50% chance of success. At least that what I like to believe. :)