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What I learned the hard way is all it takes for them to start a file is one asshole that doesn't like you. They're like syphilis- once they get into your life they never go away!

That is the worse thing about them.

I fought them for 10 years beginning with when I adopted my wife's sons. Then In college someone jealous of my success (the only reason I can think of) turned us in. Then I fought them over homeschooling... even though I was teaching college at the same time!