Good for you to notice that “equal obligation” and “equal accountability” is absence from the Wikipedia definition.
Now to the answer to your question: Feminism has never been about equality and it was always about female supremacy! Ever since Charles Fourier coined the term “feminism” has said: “the health of a society is indexed by how it treats its women”
No word of the wellbeing and treatment of men. From day one it was only about a better live for women. And that is only possible to the detriment of men.
Feminism has deceived you. It has deceived all of society for over a hundred years. Feminism is a social cancer on society.